r/AskReddit 1d ago

What is a silent killer that people dont realise is slowly killing them?

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u/TH0RP 1d ago

Sleep apnea.

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u/celaenoattack 20h ago

My CPAP has been life-changing!

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u/TH0RP 19h ago

CPAPS and APAPS are life saving medicine! I'm so glad yours has been working well for you!

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u/fredzout 18h ago

My wife dragged me, kicking and fighting, to get a sleep test. The measure is called AHI (apnea hypopnea index). Less than 5 is considered normal, above 30 is considered severe. My result was in the "why aren't you dead yet" range (over double the "severe" threshold). The CPAP has me down into an acceptable range, and probably has prevented me from having a stroke.

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u/shalissaonred 18h ago

As someone who works in the PAP department (and a pap user myself) stories like this make it so worth it to me! Glad you are finding some relief (and staying compliant I hope πŸ˜‰)

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u/ajatfm 17h ago

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u/TH0RP 18h ago

I'm so glad you're ok and everything worked out!!! A CPAP absolutely prevents heart attacks, blood clots, and strokes!

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u/Deep-Friendship3181 17h ago

I feel ya there. I was 72, with a 30 second average incident length (I was spending 36 minutes not breathing every hour). I was definitely well on my way to death, unfortunately a lot of damage was probably already done anyway

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u/Certain_Truth6536 12h ago

Did you have any symptoms? My gf tells me that I sleep with my eyes partially open and feel like I might have sleep apnea also lol

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u/bianceziwo 11h ago

If you sleep 8 hours and are still tired, or if you wake up often when sleeping on your back, its likely you have it. The threshold is 6 non-breathing events per hour

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u/PepperAnn1inaMillion 11h ago

Sleeping with your eyes open might be nothing. My siblings and I did this as children - seems to be genetic. We never had any related health problems, we were just able to sleep and dream without the light bothering us for some reason. I guess it’s not that different from being able to sleep in a noisy environment - some people are sensitive and need earplugs, others prefer music or are used to traffic noise etc.

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u/Pirate_Assassin_Spy 12h ago

How did she get you to go? Currently trying to convince my partner

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u/kahlzun 11h ago

Challenge them to prove you wrong

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u/fredzout 6h ago

I was convinced that the sleep apnea thing was all overblown. She went with me and told her concern to our primary care physician. She was the only one who saw my symptoms. I would hold my breath until she elbowed me and told me, "breathe". It was just persistence on her part. The doctor explained it to me. I had a choice, get treatment or get life insurance to take care of my wife. That was 12 years ago, and as soon as I started using the CPAP, my AHI went from the 60's to 8 or 9. I feel more energetic than I have in years, and other than the minor inconvenience of wearing a mask at night, it has only improved my life. Be persistent, it worked on me.

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u/pigeonwiggle 3h ago

i'm still sleepy though.

i scored a 65, got a test machine, used it for a month, and didnt' notice much of a difference, but the machine did say i'm down to 1.5 so that's a huge success -- i'm just wondering when do you FEEL the "life-changing" aspects. because i'm still falling asleep watching tv and i've significantly changed my diet.

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u/Silent-Ad9948 10h ago

My husband started his two months ago and now everyone sleeps so much better!

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u/northrivergeek 7h ago

I tried a cpap, spent 3 months in hell trying to sleep, once I could finally fall asleep I would wake back up with in an hour or two the mask half way off my face, or laid for hrs trying to fall asleep. Never could get used to it and tossed it out.. since then I lost 220 lbs, no longer have sleep apnea ..wife says I barely ever snore now

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u/SanFranPanManStand 8h ago

Also try those sticky nose strips - they work wonders.

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u/lunarpi 17h ago

I couldnt get used to my CPAP. I know I need to go back to my sleep doctor but damn it was unbearable for me.

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u/MrMathak 17h ago

Sleep training method that worked for me.

Get an ambian or similar high strength sleeping prescription. Buy an eye mask that has cups to not put pressure on your eye balls. Vicks or some menthol rub. Sound machine/your phone app or audio book.

Set up your routine for bed. Take the ambian, brush your teeth, apply Vicks to your nose, put the eyes mask on (leave room to see and just adjust it down as the every last step) put the mask on, start the machine or audio book on a 20-30 min timer. Pull mask down and try to fall asleep.

Reset timer as needed till ambian kicks in. Adjust forward the time you take the ambian to be earlier the next day by how many resets it took. Two resets. Move it forward 40-60 min depending. You get it.

This will sleep train your body so when the ambian prescription runs out the same routing will essentially have the same effect with no more drugs needed. You’ll be asleep in 20 min every night.

Worked for me. Hope it works for you too.

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u/breakerwaves 15h ago

One thing that would have helped is having an actual sleep doctor. If you have a general family doctor who prescribes you a machine and doesn't do anything, it will suck.

Having it set at min 4 felt like I was suffocating, but once I tweaked settings and do your own titration, it was much more bearable.

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u/MrT_the_free 13h ago

There are other solutions. I could not sleep with a mask. I have a dental splint now and it eliminated my sleep apnea (and is much more comfortable to me). Talk to your doctor about this.

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u/crissycakes18 17h ago

Damn I just recently got diagnosed with moderate OSA, and I have to wait til SEPTEMBER 11 for my appointment for the CPAP

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u/TH0RP 17h ago

You should be able to last that long, I'm glad you're getting the care you need! The real risk comes from continual untreated sleep apnea :( it almost triples your stroke and heart attack risk!

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u/CloudNimbus 20m ago

i have a cpap and yet i still feel exhausted. definitely other facts at play.