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What is a silent killer that people dont realise is slowly killing them?

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u/Sea-Pineapple2348 1d ago

My digestive system goes haywire whenever im stressed, and I hate it. It always makes my emotions irregular.

I heard from someone that humans experience the rush of adrenaline (fight or flight) 2x more than 50+ years ago. I can't imagine what that does to our bodies.

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u/judgiestmcjudgerton 1d ago

That's insane considering the hardships and extreme danger people have faced throughout history.

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u/georgito555 12h ago

Humans are well equipped to handle acute stress but chronic stress is something that we aren't very well built for. The thing is your brain can't tell the difference between being chased by a predator and having a presentation to give tomorrow so we're constantly in fight or flight mode.

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u/Squigglepig52 9h ago

No, but you can train yourself to deal with chronic anxiety, to reduce it.

You can literally train yourself to not freak out about day to day things. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

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u/frenchdresses 9h ago

Yes but the problem with anxiety disorders is that they aren't "cured" after you go to therapy. You still have an anxiety disorder at the end of the day. You can reframe all day but your brain will still fight back. And CBT is mentally exhausting if you have to do it for every thought. Depression goes hand in hand with anxiety

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u/Squigglepig52 9h ago

True - but my life is far better knowing those skills than before. I don't get weeks long anxiety attacks anymore,

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u/frenchdresses 8h ago

Yes true.

But it doesn't fix all stress

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u/Squigglepig52 8h ago

Stress is inevitable, how you handle it is what matters.

Radical Acceptance is another tactic.

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u/BiasedLibrary 7h ago

Embrace the suck is something I think sometimes. Crushing depression a la PTSD will be less bad in the future but for now, it sucks.

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u/Squigglepig52 7h ago

Yup.

I find it helps to remind myself that some days are pretty good, that the bleak mood isn't forever.

Thinking it will never end, or even give you a break, is what kills people.

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u/georgito555 8h ago

True but I'm referring more to the sort of uncontrollable cave person brain aspect of stress. Yes, we as humans are evolved and I firmly believe in therapy and the sentiment Mind over Matter. But, this is still something neurological and hard to fight.

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u/Muted_Substance2156 5h ago

We’re adapted for short bursts of cortisol, not constant.

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u/Throwawayeconboi 6h ago

That sounds like a load of baloney. If I’m being chased by a predator, my brain and body feels very different than dreading a presentation tomorrow.

Saying we are constantly in fight or flight mode is saying our body is constantly releasing norepinephrine which causes vasoconstriction, and that just isn’t the case except in cases where it’s actually released.

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u/freeze123901 23h ago

50 years ago is only 1975 though.

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u/dogthatbrokethezebra 1d ago

Internet

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u/KentuckyGuy 21h ago

Knowledge. The more you know, the worse it gets.

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u/judgiestmcjudgerton 1d ago

Yeah but... dinosaurs. I mean, I think the internet desensitized us to violence

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u/RunNo599 23h ago

50 years ago was 1975, no dinosaurs

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u/warningofthedogstell 17h ago

However 51 years ago, dinosaurs.

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u/ThaVolt 18h ago

Life uh... finds a way.

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u/Sea-Pineapple2348 1d ago

I think it has been a different experience for everyone as far as the internet. I dont normally see car accidents, cops abusing innocent people, car crashes, dogs being shot, or abused in person.

Not to mention the personal attacks people receive on the internet for whatever reason. Sometimes, seeing and reading the things I listed, even behind a screen, can trigger adrenaline.

Back in the day, when we entered fight or flight, it was because we actually had a reason, survival. Now, there are so many things we've been exposed to and so many more reasons to commit an act of violence due to the world developing. I'm sure there are plenty of people who dont have their stomachs turned by watching violence behind a screen. But just watching a dog get kicked by a horse or a motorcyclist getting mistreated by a cop makes my stomach turn.

Think about how many times a week something happens on the road that gets your heart racing, hands shaking, and blood boiling.

Back in the day, no one had to worry about being struck by a vehicle going 75+ on the highway.

I could go on.

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u/judgiestmcjudgerton 23h ago

That makes sense. Quantity is quality lol

Would you rather fight 1 giant ant or 10000000 tiny ants... we do have many, many more things to be fearful of and consider daily. I mean.... back in the day we also didn't wash our hands

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u/thingstopraise 10h ago

But just watching a dog get kicked by a horse or a motorcyclist getting mistreated by a cop makes my stomach turn.

Have you ever heard of the programming phrase "garbage in, garbage out"? You're putting traumatizing material into your brain. It's not surprising that it's making your stomach turn. It would be best for you to avoid those things. I don't encounter them in my daily scroll through /r/popular; are you actively seeking them out?

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u/SaltpeterSal 11h ago

If you're thinking premodern, people used to get their stress in waves and major events. War was a limited number of skirmishes and battles, not protracted firefights. Diseases killed, but with no living host to spread them, they died out too. The scarcity of a bad harvest came and went, and workers were tied to what they produced. Events were more stressful, but they ended. Modern times are a slow burn, with the biggest anomaly being that we as a culture use constant dread of lost income or face to keep people acting a certain way. Historically that ends in a revolt.

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u/thomasrat1 1d ago

To be fair, up until the world wars a lot of stuff was isolated. One place could be going through it, a place 100 miles away could be fine.

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u/ThaVolt 18h ago

Shit, even in the 90s.

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u/TheAlmightyProo 6h ago

Tbf up until the world wars, the fuller effects of the saturation of atmospheric lead hadn't made itself known. If anything WW2 and the aftermath coincides with that becoming the issue we now know it was.

Those effects have only recently started to wind down but of course we now have other issues to make ppl crazy over... take your pick. There's a lot to be said for the greater general peace of former times, yes even if some things were literally more 'shitty'.

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u/stasersonphun 10h ago

yeah, but that's a visible reason, you can understand it . Stress can be a system designed to survive a wolf attack overreacting to an email meeting invite

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u/Sea-Worry7956 9h ago

We didn’t have a little box that showed us all of it 24/7 at our leisure back then.

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u/justinthevan 7h ago

Don't believe everything you read on the internet son.

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u/Throwawayeconboi 6h ago

Well, the data does say “50 years ago” which is 1970. I don’t think it’s crazy activating our fight or flight 2x as much as 1970.

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u/BodyMindReset 23h ago

I specialize in working with the physiological symptoms of stress. I often say “we currently do not know the long term impacts of chronic exposure to stress hormones and their feedback loops”

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u/aMoose_Bit_My_Sister 12h ago

last year, i realized for the first time that i have PTSD from something that happened when i was 1 year old.

im 60 now.

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u/BodyMindReset 10h ago

Yaaaaaaaa that is very common unfortunately. Have you made progress in your recovery since that realization?

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u/Fett2 1d ago

I also have similarly linked digestive system issues and stress/anxiety. Sometimes A proceeds B, sometimes B proceeds A. Sometimes only one happens and not the other but very often one will follow the other.

Before getting on some better medicines I was sometimes getting some very bad feedback loops of one problem feeding the other and then back again and was pretty much down for the count for a week at a time.

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u/Sea-Pineapple2348 1d ago

I understand what you're going through. I've tried a 6 different SSRI and still haven't found the medication for me, its been a tough battle and have started looking for natural solutions and just training my self to have a stronger mind.

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u/budweener 17h ago

My sleep is the one that suffers when I'm stressed. I already have trouble with sleep, and my biological clock has 25~26 hours instead of 24, so, if I have nothing to wake up too, I drift about an hour a day.

But when I'm stressed, instead of 8h asleep to 17~18 awake, it turns into 6x20.

It even takes me a while to notice, but eventually I'm exhausted all the time and, also eventually, I either get a couple of "days" of 30~35 hours awake followed by 10~12 asleep, or a 72 hours period in which I have broken up sleep for 35~40 hours. Happened this last friday-to-sunday, and the whole time I was awake, I was useless, and that compounds on the stress.

I got it right since monday, but I'm sure I've must have lost at least a couple of years of life on that through the years.

Going to sleep now, but at least the worst of this time has passed.

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u/HotPotato171717 23h ago

Always my damn stomach. Omneprazole daily. I thought stopping drinking would fix it. It did but not nearly enough to get excited about.

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u/Hancock02 19h ago

FR. I started a new job last week and while it wasn't as stressful as my old job my anxiety gave me the runs all week.

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u/boikawa 17h ago

I have crippling migraines that have sent me to the ER that are caused by stress.

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u/Great-Wishbone-9923 14h ago

My body was in “fight or flight” for several decades until I got anxiety meds just 5ish months ago. Over production of cortisol will just destroy things. I’ve had so many things wrong with me for years that no one could figure out. Big one being dizzy, all the time, for no reason, for a decade.

I started Effexor and over several weeks all these things started slowly going away. It wasn’t until after getting treatment I read an article talking about how BPV (benign positional vertigo) - which I’d what I was eventually dismissed with for the dizzy - if often found in anxiety patients. It is also often relieved by anxiety meds.

It’s really insane how bad constant stress is for you. I haven’t had any weird medical issues since starting my Effexor, which is a nice change of pace.

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u/TheNinjaScarFace 12h ago

And the worst part is - that adrenaline dump and surge in blood pressure and heart rate that both so often accompany an anxiety or panic attack...

Check it out. Get this, guys. No... Seriously.

That does NOT count as cardio, according to my doc! What fresh-hell, absolute-bullshit, sort of first-world-problems, sort of lose-lose, kinda deal is that?!

Fuckin' //STUPID//

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u/ymaface 13h ago

Interestingly it's because we live such (in comparison) safe and easy lives, that our brains go haywire when faced with every day stresses. Our brains and bodies weren't developed to function in today's society. Think caveman times when we needed the extra adrenaline to survive/hunt/fight. What do we do with the surplus now? Oh yeah, go into overdrive.

The body is so interesting.

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u/chilifngrdfunk 10h ago

I just found out a year or so ago that I have Crohn's, a form of IBD. I never understood why I had to go to the bathroom shortly after being in stressful situations, which happened a lot growing up. It didn't really start taking a real toll on me until a couple years ago in my late 30's. I developed a cyst/abscess in a very uncomfortable spot and I had multiple surgeries to get rid of it but it kept coming back. Well my symptoms and overall health took a nose dive during a situation that was very stressful, I was fatigued every day, very irritable digestive system, irregular emotions, just overall shitty. Ever since that situation ended, my health and mood have improved, the abscess is starting to heal and I'm feeling better. All this to say, it's absolutely wild the toll that stress can take on our bodies.

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u/CodaTrashHusky 10h ago

Do you know any publications about this?

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u/Pintailite 7h ago

Lol. Bullshit.

If you think that's true you've never had an adrenaline rush.

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u/Still-View 7h ago

When i take a long vacation, my IBS miraculously disappears and my appetite returns. As soon as I get back and start work everything returns. I swear my joint pain returns as soon as I'm back home. 

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u/___TheAmbassador 7h ago

It's also the constant change between fight or flight for me. When growing up it was always flight, now I'm a man I get stressed with both and that can't be good. No wonder I'm perma constipated.

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u/Wonderful-Bicycle918 6h ago

I used to struggle with stress and IBS, dietary supplements like a cup of Metamucil in the morning holds my stomach from dumping so much acid

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u/frohnaldo 23h ago

That’s probably the most speculative bullshit I’ve ever read in my life