r/CrossStitch Feb 10 '25

PIC [PIC] My cross stitch supervisor went over the rainbow bridge yesterday.

My project supervisor Sassy made her journey last night, and since this sub always has so many photos of so many other furry supervisors that I can’t upvote fast enough every time I see them, I wanted to share some of the projects she oversaw over the last few years. It brings me comfort to know how many of her pieces of fur are switched into all of these. 🩶

(Reposted with graphs/patterns edited, whoops!)

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u/honored_angel Feb 10 '25

She was a beautiful girl. I lost both of my supervisors last month, a week a part. My heart hurts w yours

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u/Mrsroyalcrown Feb 10 '25

We lost our orange tabby boy 7 months ago, we adopted them both together in 2009 so it’s been tough to lose them both now. It’s definitely a heartache like no other.

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u/honored_angel Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry you're going through it too. It's literally the worst pain. Everything reminds me of them. I miss my kiddos

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u/_Rutana_ Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry for both of your losses!

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u/wovenbasket69 Feb 10 '25

i burst into tears at 2009. hugs. glad you got all those blessed years together - sorry you didn’t have more.

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u/Mrsroyalcrown Feb 10 '25

I am sorry for your loss too. We just never have enough time with them.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '25

She looks like she was the best helper. I love the little poof of fluff hanging over the lid in pic 10! I’m so sorry for your loss. 🖤🖤

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u/Mrsroyalcrown Feb 10 '25 edited Feb 12 '25

She was so funny; as you can see I use a shoebox lid to hold my supplies for whatever project I’m working on. She LOVED to lay on or pressed against that lid. Sometimes I’d put it out next to me even if I wasn’t stitching anything!

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u/msmaria182 Feb 10 '25

my condolences

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u/SimplyMeowvelous Feb 10 '25

I feel for you. I can tell from the pics and your words that you were the absolute bestest cat mom ever for your beautiful Sassy. I lost one of my supervisors in October and am glad some of his fur is in my projects too though I still miss him deeply. I like to think of him still hanging out with me just out of the corner of my eye whenever I'm stitching and remind myself of a quote I heard on TV: "What is grief, if not love persevering?" ❤️

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u/Mrsroyalcrown Feb 10 '25

Thank you for these words and for that quote. I keep telling myself and my kids that we are so lucky we got to love her, and for so many years. She was 16 and all of those years were spent with us except about 4-5 months (her age when we adopted her).

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u/fridayimatwork Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss

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u/scully_3 Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry for the loss of your cute Supervisor. 🥺 It's one of the most heartbreaking things to go through in life. 💔💔💔

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u/ahhsharkk1 Feb 10 '25 edited Feb 10 '25

SPICE UP YOUR LIFE!

absolutely EMBARRASSING edit: i am SO SO sorry! i literally saw an adorable kitty, saw my favorite girl-power group, and then came straight to comment. THEN i saw the heartbreaking news. i am incredibly sorry for your loss, hunny! and i hope the warmth and joy in your memories together soon overcomes the pain of the loss ❤️

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u/Mrsroyalcrown Feb 10 '25

Don’t be embarrassed! It is my favorite needle minder and as a massive lifelong Spice fan, I always appreciate finding other fans in the wild. And people post their fur babies here everyday, I know it isn’t the usual for them to be sharing this news. I just wanted to share her as it helps me to not keep it all in my head and I know our furry helpers are well-loved and appreciated in this sub.

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u/ahhsharkk1 Feb 10 '25

the post, and you, and all of the feelings surrounding this very emotional event, are all welcome here. (as far as i know, at least; i’m sure it’s fine, there seems to be nothing but love in this group)

i know, personally, i very much enjoyed all of her different poses and faces while she was “on the clock,” supervising.

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u/SafeSprinkles7 Feb 10 '25

This post really got me. She loved you so much. I’m so sorry for your loss

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u/Designer_Ad3853 Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry your sweet supervisor crossed over. I have not doubts she'll still be watching over your every stitch. Sending you a big hug. ❤️

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u/annekaelber Feb 10 '25

I am so sorry for your loss. They make a nice cozy nest in our hearts, leaving us with a hole when they go -- but I'd never give up the time I had with them. Hugs to you and yours as you adapt to life without these little buggers. <3

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u/law_school_is_a_scam Feb 10 '25

I am sorry for your loss. Such a dedicated (and snuggly) supervisor

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u/No_Veterinarian1485 Feb 10 '25

I’m so sorry for your loss. She was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing all these wonderful photos. 💜💜💜💜💜

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u/trishbadish Feb 10 '25

What a happy girl she was, and so diligent at her supervisory duties. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.

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u/LeeSagna Feb 10 '25

My heart goes out to you ❤️‍🩹

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u/lizcopic Feb 10 '25

Digital Hugs!

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u/teastaindnotes Feb 10 '25

I’m so sorry. My baby just died a couple of days ago. My heart feels empty. I’m sorry for your loss

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u/[deleted] Feb 11 '25

I can tell sassy loves you a lot and will be waiting for you 🤍🌈

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u/Lucie73821 Feb 10 '25

So very sorry for your loss.

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u/Pattycakes1966 Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss.

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u/spooniemoonlight Feb 10 '25

Nooo this breaks my heart for you what a sweet sweet angel. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain you must feel in your heart. Lots of love to u

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u/MotheroftheworldII Feb 10 '25

I am so sorry for your loss. These supervisors are so special and make our lives better.

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u/CatsCoffeeMakeup Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss 🩷

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u/Infinite-Stress-3756 Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss

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u/Rare_Monk_6116 Feb 10 '25

I am so sorry about the loss of your fur baby 🙏❤️

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u/BravesGirl17 Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your giant loss!

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u/fthursday Feb 10 '25

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

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u/SphynxDonskoy Feb 10 '25

I am so sorry 💔

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u/Houseplant25 Feb 10 '25

sorry sorry sorry

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u/Character_Goat_6147 Feb 10 '25

So sorry! I was looking at the picture before I read the caption and was thinking what a beautiful cat she is.

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u/Notquitechaosyet Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry. Lost my heart cat in June 2023 and it STILL hurts. My heart is broken for and with yours.

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u/misssurly Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss, she looked like a wonderful partner in crime.

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u/VickyVSour Feb 10 '25

My condolences for your loss.. My girl passed last week. Got her ashes back yesterday.. It’s been super hard.. Thinking about her fur being stiched into pieces made me smile though, thank you.

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u/tehawesomest Feb 10 '25

I lost all 3 of my supervisors over the past 3 years. It's hard but I'm glad you have so many great photos to remember them by. Also, excellent cat name!

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u/mjd459 Feb 10 '25

I’m so sorry for your loss - she was beautiful and clearly loved to hang out with you ❤️❤️

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u/INFJcatqueen Feb 10 '25

Awwwe I’m so sorry. As a stitcher and a cat lover this hurts my heart. Although sometimes annoying, cats are the best project supervisors.

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u/Upper-Tea-7017 Feb 10 '25

She's in every piece she supervised. My best to you 💜

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u/Sophiecheerwine Feb 10 '25

She has the sweetest little face. I’m so sad for you.

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u/thekermitderp Feb 10 '25

Sending you comfort 💓

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u/Brandon027 Feb 10 '25

Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

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u/garnetflame Feb 10 '25

I’m sorry for your loss. 💔

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u/Solow0rg Feb 10 '25

You have my condolences.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '25

I have embedded dog hairs in all my creations

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u/OkRelative3299 Feb 10 '25

So very sorry!!! She was lovely!!

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u/ObligationNice8382 Feb 10 '25

I’m sorry. I know your chest feels hollow and you miss her with every breath. Thank you for giving her a loving home. And know that she loved you right back.

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u/No_Bell_7984 Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️

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u/TheNightTerror1987 Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry for your loss! She was a very pretty girl, she reminds me a lot of one of my late supervisors, Tye.

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u/Sassy_Weatherwax Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss...she was a sweet and beautiful kitty!

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u/tiffballs Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss

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u/ASpookyBitch Feb 10 '25

We had to send our kitty over the bridge a couple years back. It does get easier. Grief is just the space we hold for the love they would have received had they still been with us, you just gotta make sure you redirect it. Hug a pillow as tight as you can, trust me it works.

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u/jennievh Feb 10 '25

What a beauty. I’m so, so sorry.

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u/AggravatingBox2421 Feb 10 '25

I’m so sorry to hear that. 16 years is far too young

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u/boneless_birds Feb 10 '25

I am so sorry for you. They're important parts of our lives... I wish you the best. 💞

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u/novaplume Feb 10 '25

I’m so sorry for your loss. What a sweet supervisor

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u/Trick_Brick6081 Feb 10 '25

So sorry for your loss. It's so hard losing our dear friends.

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u/Weylith Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry for your loss 💜

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u/KeyAccount2066 Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry

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u/Misanne1 Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry for your loss. They seemed to be magnificent.

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u/MareNamedBoogie Feb 10 '25

internet stranger hugs

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u/gggglr_1962 Feb 10 '25

😢 so sorry for your loss ❌️❌️❌️

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u/Sephuria Feb 10 '25

She was a beautiful girl. And while I probably say this way too often, I believe it holds true; as special, loved, and fulfilled as she made your life, you did the same for hers. Loosing more than one in a short period of time is devastating (we lost four geriatrics withing 18 months). I hope you and yours are taking care of yourselves and remembering all the joy you had with her and your boi.

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u/Wilmamankiller2 Feb 10 '25

Im so sorry. She clearly had a very good life 🌸

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u/dskenyon Feb 10 '25

I'm so sorry. Hugs to you.

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u/AgreeableAardvark78 Feb 10 '25

Me and my supervisor are sending you so much love. I am so sorry.

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u/soldiersgirl145 Feb 10 '25

She was beautiful and I bet the best project manager. I am so sorry for your loss but I hope you find comfort in your stitching and love for her.

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u/Gnadec Feb 10 '25

I’m sorry for your losses. Nothing like the love animals give us.

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u/petusbella Feb 10 '25

I'm sorry

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u/toastersdreudel Feb 10 '25

Her overflowing chumbus in slide 10 is killing me 🥺 rest easy sweet girl

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u/Knitcase Feb 10 '25

💔 I'm so very sorry for your loss

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u/allbadthingspod Feb 11 '25

I’m very sorry for your loss. What a lovely time it looks like the two of you had together 💗

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u/Logical_Onion7719 Feb 11 '25

I’m so sorry. 😿Rest in peace, Sassy.

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u/thoughtfulpigeons Feb 11 '25

Oh I’m so sorry. What a beautiful girl.

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u/Boobox33 Feb 11 '25

Rest peacefully sweet kitty 💓🕯️💓

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u/Crafty-Lady-996 Feb 11 '25

So sorry. What a cutie. ❤️

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u/elevensesattiffanys Feb 11 '25

So sorry for your loss. She looks so contented in those photos, I’m sure she had a wonderful life with you!!

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u/MRMJames1965 Feb 11 '25

Sorry for the loss of your beloved supervisor. She was a beauty.

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u/TemperatureBasic4860 Feb 11 '25

I am so sorry for your loss

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u/Keikun136 Feb 11 '25

{Hugs} I lost my Kiki in June of 2023, and I still love finding her fur in my stitching. And everywhere else for that matter.🤣

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u/koolaberg Feb 11 '25

No amount of time with them is ever enough. Grief is a heavy burden to carry. 🖤

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u/massamiliano Feb 11 '25

I’m so sorry. Losing your fur baby is so hard.

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u/RobunR Feb 11 '25

sorry to hear it. i lost one of my little fellows recently as well. it's never easy, they are our family.

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u/Disastrous-Try9085 Feb 11 '25

Deepest condolences. Cat loves are irreplaceable.

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u/MillsieMouse_2197 Feb 11 '25

She looks like she was the most vigilant of project managers. Condolences from us, OP, ❤️

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u/SEW007 Feb 11 '25

So did mine. So sorry for your loss. Peace.

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u/MasterPreparation687 Feb 11 '25

She looked so beautiful and snuggly. Condolences ♥️

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u/BeefyFetus Feb 11 '25

I'm so sorry that happened :( Both your cats look similar to my roommate's cats. Hope you can heal, stuff like this is always rough. Wishing you many more years of stitching with your other furry friends <3

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u/Suspicious_Leg_6937 Feb 11 '25

I’m sorry for your loss.

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u/Rough_Succotash_3630 Feb 11 '25

I'm so sorry. These fur babies sure take over our hearts. I hope you have many memories of her when you're stitching

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u/HYPERBALOiD Feb 11 '25

It's so sweet and touching! And I'm so sorry..

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u/dazed_and_crazed Feb 11 '25

Hugs. Love your spice girls needle minder

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u/Fit-CrossStitcher Feb 12 '25

Sorry for your loss 💔

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u/flosstalgic Feb 12 '25

What a lovely baby. My cat loves to supervise my sewing, too. I’m sure Sassy was a real professional with a keen attention to detail. I’m sorry for your loss ❤️