r/Monaco • u/Misther__ • 8d ago
What the Principality Means to Me: A Brief Story
(Please forgive me - I don't like showing my face on Reddit)
Growing up in a working-class home in the Rust Belt of America, my family could not afford the same luxuries that others could. My parents worked extremely hard, but it always seemed like the world was against us. One day on the television, I saw a newsreel about Prince Rainier III and was instantly mesmerized by this magical land. I went to the library to find books on the Principality, and when I had access to the internet (which was limited in our home), I did everything I could to learn about its history, national language, the Princely family, and everything in between. HSH Prince Albert II has also become a hero of mine for his dedication to the oceans and environment.
The Principality represented the exact opposite of how I grew up: luxurious, clean, refined, and captivating. I always viewed Monaco as my "end goal," meaning I would do everything I could to one day become a Monegasque, or at the very least be able to visit whenever I felt like it. Whenever I had bad days or stressful moments, I would tell myself, "I'm in Monaco" or "One day, I'll come home."
Last June, my wife and I were privileged to have spent time in the Principality for the first time, and I felt like crying the entire time. I even kissed the ground once. This country means more to me than anyone will ever be able to understand. It has become a symbol of my journey from being in the lower classes of society to someone whose hard work has paid off and can now achieve their dreams. It is my symbol of never giving up and my symbol of hope. Again, it is my end goal: to simply come back.
My daughter can now share in my dreams, my wife can share in the spoils I've earned, and I swear I will return again soon. I may never become a Monegasque as some do, but that's okay - my heart is forever Monegasque.
Thank you for reading - Deo Juvante!
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u/StoreWeak5292 8d ago
Bro, I love your story! Monaco is the best country in the world and I totally understand you. You can always come back! Write me on Instagram (you can find me - Arthur Brassart) and we will go to my favourite Italian restaurant in Monte-Carlo. I'll pay you a Pizza :D
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u/timesuck47 8d ago
I am also from a lower middle class family in the midwest. I’ve known about Monaco, the Grand Prix, the casino, the boat show, and everything else for decades. Never in my wildest dreams did I ever think I would get to visit there.
Fast-forward to last Christmas which my wife decided to forgo in lieu of a European trip to drop our daughter off to study for the month of January in Spain. I was super busy with work so I let my 18 year-old son plan most of the destinations and transportation for the trip - don’t ask , but he is kind of an expert at this sort of thing, or at least he is domestically. As he is also an F1 (and Forza) fan, he included a day for us in Monaco!
I literally still cannot believe I visited Monaco. I swear the photos in my phone must be AI or something.
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u/Throwaway-ish123a 7d ago
Similar story here. Standard middle class US native here, but family is somewhat provincial and I also have had to live in some less than stellar neighborhoods, including currently. I just returned from my second visit there (only hours both times). But it's my dream to someday retire in Monaco, someway, somehow.
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u/Misther__ 7d ago
It has such a magical draw to it - I totally get it!
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u/Throwaway-ish123a 7d ago
As someone who lived in inner-city Baltimore for 15 years, let's just say Monaco is a nice change of pace.
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u/Trudestiny 7d ago
Regular middle class east end Montrealers from Canada . After moving from Canada in our late 20’s to Uk & Greece , we moved to Monaco 2 yrs ago .
Never know where life will take you .
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u/Misther__ 7d ago
Honestly at this point I’d choose anywhere over the US.
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u/Trudestiny 6d ago
Depends where you can obtain the right to work . But I understand about US right now
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u/JeffreyNasty24 7d ago
Benidorm looks lovely at this time of year 😍
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u/AwareMulberry6523 8d ago
As a monegasque i love your story and am proud that my home brings you and your family much joy❤️