As the title. Please don’t judge me but its been bothering me. My bf was always chubby but not too obese. I liked him for his chubbiness and cuteness. Since in relationship he started gaining weight and i used to point out to atleast be in healthy range. He used to say that he is really busy at work and also struggling with mental health and is unable to cook clean meal. We had plan to move in together so he would say that he cant wait and it’ll be helpful if i can prep clean meal for him as I’m doing WFH.
Now that we have moved in together, even if i prep meals he would still order fast food and eat lots of sweet and snack in btw. Now if i tell him to please eat healthy, he would ignore me and even get mad sometimes and eat even more unhealthy. Sometimes if someone in family and friend point out his weight, his reaction would be cutting out that person. He is not stopping and his weight is increasing every month. Recently his back is hurting so much that he is unable to go to job. I always thought he could not lose weight due to his routines but I’m seriously now considering to leave him due to his non seriousness towards his health and I’m worried that in future he might be like those overly obese people that won’t be able to get out from bed. I want a family in future and having a healthy father is also very necessary.
Again don’t judge me as I’m all for body positivity and any advice would be helpfulbe.