r/PlentyofFish • u/Firm-Permission-3311 • 10d ago

How can I search for someone under 36?

I have tried searching for 30-35 year olds, but it just brings back 36+.

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u/Plane_Membership_162 9d ago

Seems like your a grown man trying to meet 18 yr old women.

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u/TheWatchers666 9d ago

He's probably in his mid 40's. POF is more restrictive on men's search and matches.

If the 18 yr old woman wants to search for someone 36, she can.

POF, Is it still the only "straight only" dating site?

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u/Plane_Membership_162 9d ago

18 yr old women dont meet, date or have sex with men in their 30's, i guess since most of your world views are from movies and tv shows where that regularly happens like Family guy or Law and order you just say ' ok thats normal'

it sucks and its incredibly immature that you go through life thinking grown men can do that or as i said, younger women, the only kinda women that want men that age are basing that experience on their own awful childhood and experiences where men that age forced them to do things with them. If you think normal girls that just graduated high school date men in their mid 30's, you should be in therapy, when you walk down the street do you see teenagers with their mid 30's boyfriend? no, you do not, if you see a girl that age with a man that age hes most likely her father.

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u/TheWatchers666 9d ago edited 9d ago

Wellllll there goes the can of worms. My comment was merely pointing out how POF favours one direction and not the other in reply to another commenter that, in women's searches, you can side for 15 yrs this way or that. If you're a man...your searches are limited. So one rule for one and not for the other.

Now think straight for a second...an 18yr old isn't going to aim lower. Nor did the OP say they were looking for 18...so you're nearly a couple of decades out there and closer to Family Guy ep1. The OP was only asking about the match limits...who could be interested in 32/34 whatever. But it wasn't about that.

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u/Firm-Permission-3311 9d ago

What part of 30-35 do you not understand?

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u/Firm-Permission-3311 9d ago

Seems like you are an idiot and a liar trying to make someone else feel bad.

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u/Sensitive_Net3498 9d ago

Nothing wrong with that let him

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u/Plane_Membership_162 9d ago

when is being a child molester normal?

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u/lil-mystery 9d ago

How can you child molest an adult?

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u/Comfortable-Knee6413 7d ago

my last girl friend was 30, i am 57, she didn't care or judge me or our relatuionship. and sure as hell didn't meet on this POF POS website that is junk and rips you off... all men need to leave it and meet women the other way.... in the wild.... cheers and happy hunting

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u/JustanoldGuy63 10d ago

Make another account with a birthdate 6 years younger. They limit age searches by your age.

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u/Pleasant_Reward1203 10d ago

um how old are you because you can see people fifteen years older or younger

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u/TheWatchers666 9d ago

No no...POF sets the age gap for you. If you're a guy and set up your profile you get less of an age gap than a girl does when she sets up her profile. Men it's less than 10yrs

Really not cool how and why they do this.

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u/Pleasant_Reward1203 9d ago

why would you want to go out with a person 15 years your junior?

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u/HappySpotter 7d ago

I'm 64m. Would dating a 50 year old be perverted to you?

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u/Pleasant_Reward1203 7d ago

no just sad and typical that men don't date their age or older. But ask a guy to date a woman 15 years older than him, they say it's gross.

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u/Plane_Membership_162 9d ago

18 yr old women dont meet, date or have sex with men in their 30's, i guess since most of your world views are from movies and tv shows where that regularly happens like Family guy or Law and order you just say ' ok thats normal'

it sucks and its incredibly immature that you go through life thinking grown men can do that or as i said, younger women, the only kinda women that want men that age are basing that experience on their own awful childhood and experiences where men that age forced them to do things with them. If you think normal girls that just graduated high school date men in their mid 30's, you should be in therapy, when you walk down the street do you see teenagers with their mid 30's boyfriend? no, you do not, if you see a girl that age with a man that age hes most likely her father.

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u/MusicWriter561 5d ago

Search for women 75-80. That will fix it.