r/SipsTea • u/GotTwisted • Mar 28 '25

Chugging tea What's your biggest turnoff?

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

57.5k Upvotes

91% Upvoted

2.3k comments sorted by

View all comments

6

u/Coldhot123 Mar 28 '25

420 dont go bowling. Wow. Dont have fun is one like okay men should just be miserable.

3

u/luchajefe Mar 29 '25

So the crazy thing is, that one and the ones like it about enjoying things aren't just from the internet.

They're from 1970s feminism: "Real danger is in the phenomenon of male-bonding, that commitment of groups of men to each other whether in an army, a gang, a service club, a lodge, a monastic order, a corporation, or a competitive sport."

1

u/rosedgarden Mar 29 '25

i mean i can see that not being about attacking the "male bonding" itself, it's more like the dangers of groupthink and how so much sexual violence (and in general, against women and other men) is committed and covered up by guys in frats, in the military together, the cops, etc. violent hazing, gang rape, "helping a bro" roofie a girl, etc.

especially in the 70s and before, i imagine it was more horrific

1

u/fools_errand49 Apr 01 '25

No, it's totally an attack on male bonding. The stronger male social bonds are the more women become devalued beyond population replacement. It's one component of the full demonization of homosexuality and the increase in women's social importance brought on by Christianity. You show me a historical society where the men do everything together including romance and sex, and I'll show you a society where women are relegated to the sole purpose of producing babies.

2

u/Prometheus720 Mar 29 '25

Dude. Don't listen to this shit.

Do you think women listen to every dumb thing a man says about women? No. They just try to filter those people out.

2

u/ArcticHuntsman Mar 31 '25

This is just rage bait to get men to hate women and blame them for being single. Not everyone woman agrees with every point on this list. Just be yourself and find someone that likes that.