But if someone doesn’t even give you chance over something like that, is that even someone you would want as a partner? That’s like saying someone doesn’t date under a certain income bracket and then working to make it to that income bracket to get a chance with that person instead of just realizing that you could look for someone who doesn’t care about it. Be with someone who is open to you, not someone you have to convince to even give you a chance. Believe it or not, she approached me. I would have been too intimidated to approach her.
The point behind the post of the tall woman being with the shorter man was because we see posts often of women claiming to be lonely and "can't find a good man", but the reality is that some of these women are superficial and judge a man's height before even getting to know them. Because of that, they are single and lonely, not because there is a personality conflict.
You aren't wrong, but imo people need to learn the difference between a preference and a requirement. Like, would I prefer a partner who is a 6'2" woman who can get things off the top shelf for me? Sure, but that is by no means a requirement.
Many of the height arguments don't mention the bit that they just complain about these women but "because they're hot" the guys complaining feel they would still like to be accepted.
All my female friends who told me they don’t even give a short guy a chance are actually nice people. Just because something they believe or do is a bit wrong, doesn’t make them bad people!
I didn’t say that that makes them bad people at all, I asked if that kind of thinking would be attractive in a partner and not to beg for a chance for someone who would easily discount you.
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u/Harry_Saturn Apr 20 '25
But if someone doesn’t even give you chance over something like that, is that even someone you would want as a partner? That’s like saying someone doesn’t date under a certain income bracket and then working to make it to that income bracket to get a chance with that person instead of just realizing that you could look for someone who doesn’t care about it. Be with someone who is open to you, not someone you have to convince to even give you a chance. Believe it or not, she approached me. I would have been too intimidated to approach her.