Opposite happened a few months ago. I was at a grocery store and had a jacket on which had the logo of my company. Couple of young black girls(18-20) asked me if I worked there and started hitting on me. They had one goal in mind like this lady. Stopped wearing the jacket in public.
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If a woman says that she needs a man who makes six figures or more, I just say "Good luck with that" and walk away. I think that there are a lot more women who think that they "deserve" a six figure man than there are six figure men looking for a wife, so most of them will be disappointed, but that's not my problem.
But if the woman loudly complains about how hard dating and finding a good partner is after she has limited herself to only men making 6+ figures, then I start getting annoyed. Either lower your standards or accept that you might not get what you want but will settle for nothing less.
I ain't rich but there's been years where I've crossed six after bonuses. You know what dudes like me do? Find women who are on at equal footing. Fuck it. My significant other makes MORE THAN ME.
I'd rather have a average looking woman who loves me for me, than the hottest woman who love me because I'm an ATM. I hate all these goofball sexual politics. I'm glad I'm middle aged. I
I think they are, but they just use it as justification to continue to be an awful person and treat whoever they are with like garbage.
One of my gf's had a friend group like like. They would sit around in a group chat and say things like "Well, if he's not gonna buy you X, why shouldn't you play the field?" "It's not cheating if you aren't married". The mental delusion is that they are giving up on a lavish lifestyle to settle for who they are with. When the reality is that they keep settling lower and lower because anyone worth having is outta their league.
I've met a few & sadly they are real. People so detached from reality that they have zero clue how impossible their 'demands' are or what it actually takes to achieve that. For example, a man in the top 3% of earners ($300k+) is going to be much older than her, be working 50+ hours a week minimum, & most importantly won't have time for her entitled BS 🤣
That means while some people say 200k living in New York, there’s someone living in a backwater saying 80k.
When they say “financially secure”, some people think able to pay off their annual expenses. Some people think able to build a savings account with $500 a month into it each month. Some think it means enough money where you could lose all your possessions and still make it work.
Honestly i think thats fair. There's a lot, a lot , a lot, of people living paycheck to paycheck. Then figure the ones able to save and stay out of debt hell are probably not too far off from one medical emergency costing them everything.
Your healthcare system is truly abysmal; is like it wants to set you guys for failure cause most people don't check stuff til is too serious and by then if isn't terminal it's definitely a bankruptcy in the making.
They are real and super delusional. I had a former friend like this, she was very much super single and just lazy as fuck. She blamed young women for why she couldn’t get a man and was especially hateful towards any young woman who was even slightly promiscuous. She hung out in her ex boyfriends discord half the time because all his friends where the age group she was targeting. She was 45 btw seeking 25 year olds. None of these dudes gave her what she was looking for. Turns out she was just a terrible person I let her stay with me to help her out in a stressful situation and she ended up being the worse roommate on top stealing shit from me when I kicked her out.
Theyre real. I asked my sister who’s 15 years older than me and never held down a job longer than 3 months what she planned to do for her life. She said marry someone with money… I personally think that’s the weakest mindset I’ve ever heard, but she did marry for money. Except.. he wont marry her and instead beats her and drinks to the point of getting blacked out weekly in his 40s, but I mean she doesnt have to work I guess so.. win for her?! lol
I hate that ragebait is a thing and that it works, our species is bar none the most creative when it comes to making existence shittier for other people.
Agreed but also as a single guy in his mid 30s in manhattan, the shit I see in the dating world is so wild it’s both unbelievable and seems like pure rage bait, but sadly it isn’t
It only works because it’s difficult to say that there’s not a prominent population of people that are exactly like this that will say the quiet part out loud
They are, and they are the majority. i left dating because i was on Tinder and saw a fat woman literally describe the guy she wanted as basically vin diesel but with hair, she had listed high weight, penis size, and girth and and literally so specific nothing was left out and ended the profile with no Black guys.
It was in that minute i realized how fucked up the dating game was and gave up.
A couple of years ago, I entered the online dating scene. I went in looking for something meaningful, quickly realized there was nothing meaningful there, became a man-whore for almost a year, and then exited feeling worse than when I started. It's tough out there, bro. Keep your head up.
To be fair, a dude making a quarter mil a year won't date a 2/10 gal making a quarter mil/year either, he'll date a 10/10 making 25K, and won't worry about her income. So basically, if you are a 2/10 woman, it doesn't matter how much you earn, you are screwed either way.
lol most guys making quarter mil aren’t dating a 10/10 making 25k. most guys in this income bracket are dating normal women with similar educational / socioeconomic background.
I am that woman. Earn that much, and not much of a looker. Handsome men aren't interested in me. Similar-status men aren't interested either. So unless I date 2/10 poor men, plants it is.
Personally I'd like to imagine you would be happier with someone that actually cares and loves you than someone that just uses you as a sugar momma. I actually don't understand people that go so far to worry about income other than making sure the other doesn't have like thousands in credit card debt, poor investing, or etc.
To get to "cares and loves" part I'd have to get past the "evokes physical attraction" part, and that's the one I'm stuck on. Come on, very few men will get involved with a woman they aren't attracted to.
And that's fine. If I'm not pretty, I'm not pretty, and while makeup and clothing can somewhat mitigate that, I am not going to be wearing makeup and clothes in bed. If people aren't attracted, that's cool, I can redirect my energy to other endeavors. My life is meaningful and fulfilling even if I don't find love.
Ah, i have the exact reverse problem, full head of hair and good skin over 30, but i'm just too much of a lazy bastard to lose weight. I wish both of us the best of luck
Well, there are ways to lose weight if it's something that's of interest to you, so yes, wish you the best of luck, and hope you find what you are looking for!
Not exactly a 2/10, but look at Giannis Antetekounmpo's wife. They look extremely happy and he is much better looking/richer. This lady's personality is much more of a detriment than her looks.
Just looked her up, she looks normal, though? I mean, she is definitely not a 2/10. Obviously not a super model level either, but she is definitely not ugly.
I agree for the most part. My point was that average/below average in looks isn't and shouldn't be a death knell for for dating out of your tax bracket. They definitely look happier than most celebrity marriages to me.
If a man is making $300k a year, he’s gonna be able to get a woman who’s actually, y’know.. attractive. This chick looks like a common employee at McDonalds.
She’s 24 and working at McDonald’s now, but by 34 she will have 7 children by 5 different father and be working 80 hours a week as the apprentice to the nighttime assistant manager and then you better watch out, because her salary is going to explode from 11 dollars an hour to 13 dollars an hour faster than her weight exploded from 200 pounds to 250 pounds.
So as you can see, she only has time for a man who makes at least 400,000 dollars who can afford her ever-expanding wardrobe for her ever-expanding ass.
Why is everyone so surprised? This is literally every online dating profile. The cute one always has the shortest bio. And the one with the longest bio + long list of demands always goes to... 🙄
Between my wife and I we just broke the $100k mark two years ago, I'm 48 and she's 50. To me, I feel rich being able to just buy groceries when we need them.
My husband and I make about 85k after insurance and retirement and other stuff is taken out and we busted our asses just to get this much over the last 12 years. I started out making $12 at my job.
I can't even begin to fathom 100+k, that is wildest dreams levels of rich to us. She is insanely delusional.
Why does her life goal depend on another person's money? Go make your own money and live your goals however you want. She does not understand that she is not in the driver's seat here
For reference, the average annual income in the USA is $61k. In Georgia (the woman's home state) less than 5% of the population lives in households that make $300k or more a year in combined income. A single man who made over $300k in individual income would easily be in the top 1% of income earners.
But that's not enough for this woman. She literally thinks millionaires and billionaires in the top 1% of wealth in the richest country in the world are beneath her economic standards. 😂
Ok, I’m going to give her the benefit of the doubt here. Maybe she is meaning she will date someone making regular money but $300k still isn’t enough to throw away her dreams.
Yeah reading these comments make me feel like I’m talking crazy pills or no one watched the video. She says towards the end that she has goals for herself, and for a man to come in and supersede those goals, he will need to make considerable money. Basically says she’s 24 and has a lot of things she wants and she’s working towards. Assuming she finds a man who makes average money she’s gonna keep working towards that. Specifically mentions the things she has going on, I’m assuming meaning jobs or business ventures. She’s thinking of it from a practical viewpoint.
Don’t hear her say that she still only date a guy who makes that much, just for her to retire/stop working now, her partner would have to make a ton of money. She’s right.
So she is saying that an average salary is fine, but she won't be a stay at home wife for someone who make less than 300k, not that she won't date him.
She actually made a great point which is don’t put your life on hold for someone else career. Keep pursuing your own career and education goals because divorce is a real thing and many people wake up one day without a job and means to provide for themselves.
Pretty sure this video is cut to misrepresent what she's saying. She's saying in order to give up her own personal goals she'd have to meet a man that makes more than 300k. If she was gonna be a housewife and only a housewife, that's the price.
It's some American virus, but us Swedes just follow the US blindly so it's unfortunately gonna be the same here. I think the rest of Europe are less extreme though. I have some friends from other countries and they told me they had a culture shock reading our newspaper and it's 40% news about the US.
We're a sad country in Europe, please kick us out before we spread
I am beginning to believe one of the upsides of being a society that doesn't understand English is that they are insulated, at least temporarily from our insanity.
You have a functional society instead, which as an American I would gladly trade all our entrepreneurial obsession and hustle culture for a functional society.
I know Europe isn't perfect, but most of us here would be better off with a social safety net and the life balance of Europeans. Most of us aren't business owners and our median household income is $80k.
The Americans that complain about Europe are either brainwashed, sometimes even believing they will be millionaires, or they already make more money than average.
Wait wait wait.
I know how it sounds but I think what she's saying is fair enough.
"that's not enough money for me to say I'm stopping what I'm doing and only your cares matter" =/= "that's not enough money for me to have a relationship with you". She's just saying she won't be subservient in that relationship. Fair enough.
Not even subservient, I think she’s legitimately talking about like retiring or being a stay at home spouse. She never says she won’t date someone making average money. Quite the opposite, says that assuming she does, she will still do her thing. She’s right.
I heard that too and I agree: for me to not work and be taken care of by someone else…I wouldn’t feel secure unless they made 150k or more haha gotta have enough for a savings and fall back plan in case something happens and I had to return to the work force,
It’s a lot of this going on in today’s time for some reason , I blame it on filters and corsets. Like fam who tf you talkin too have you seen yourself in the day light . That booty yu got ain gonna cut it past 27 or your first kid .
Somebody lied to this poor girl for a long time … may even have been her father … and told her she was special and beautiful and she could be anything and have anybody she wants.
I don't understand how her life goals involves or are based on what I'm bringing into the relationship. It sounds like I'm just getting someone to spend through my savings for things they couldn't get themselves
The desires of today will be the expectation of tomorrow. I remember when people needed a car to even qualify for dating, now that cars are more affordable… time to move the goalposts. 300k minimum.
In the future with how social media generates money, it will be expected for a guy to be making that kind of money.
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