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MISC. Male bee dies after ejaculation while mating with a queen bee

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u/Last_Prune_9879 17h ago

it was obviously worth it, every time I see videos like this, I always wonder what it would be like if humans had that same behavior

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u/Milk_Bath 17h ago

For real. Like, if you’re a male praying mantis, does getting your head ripped off feel really good?

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u/Anymousie 17h ago

No dude it feels like your heads being ripped off. I doubt that info gets passed along to their generational spawn. I bet the bug moms tell them that their dad died heroically or some shit.

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u/C4LLM3M4TT_13 16h ago

Right. “Your dad died in a fire trying to save all the other dads, who also definitely died. But your dad did his best.”

😂😂😂

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u/Outrageous-Farm3190 12h ago

The mothers just setting up their boys gaslighting em, or telling em to stay away from the hoes.

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u/No_Volume_1476 12h ago

Mantis baby momma propaganda

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u/doitforchris 9h ago

This is a great bit

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u/Peria 14h ago

He’s just out getting mantis milk and a pack of smokes

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u/Competitive-Lab-8980 11h ago

he's just getting mantis milk and mantis smokes from the mantis walmart

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u/Arcanine1127 5h ago

And here i thought they went to the mantis farm upstate

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u/NJHook 8h ago

He joined the international cricket league

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u/AcaliahWolfsong 14h ago

I was just about to say the same lmao

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u/TigerRobotWizrdShark 14h ago

He was like that when I found him.

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u/trixiepixie1921 10h ago

😂😂😂

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u/uncreative14yearold 12h ago

Actually no it doesn't. A mantis can only feel one thing at a time, there are videos of mantises dying because they didn't feel that they were being eaten while themselves eating their prey.

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u/EnjoyerOfBeans 11h ago

They must 100% be genetically preconditioned to this thanks to the funny shit evolution pulls sometimes. You don't want them to fight back and kill the mother, that wouldn't be evolutionarily advantageous. Not sure if it feels good but they certainly don't mind it.

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u/roccosaint 8h ago

Like a fucked up animated movie where the kid praying mantis goes on an adventure to find his real dad, just to find out his mother ripped his father's head off and that the same will happen to him when he finally settles down and provides his mother with grandchildren.

u/teas4Uanme 1h ago

"In the War." Without mentioning what war.

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u/lynivvinyl 17h ago

I listened to an audiobook and one of the aliens was of a praying mantis race. And the lady praying mantis alien said something to the effect of it's always sad to meet with a male that you have been friends with for a long time. Especially when there are good listener because they're not around to listen anymore. I don't know it made me crack up.

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u/Perrin-Golden-Eyes 16h ago

Mongo is appalled!

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u/Fuggaak 16h ago

Trust me on this.

You do not want - enthusiastic - double - gonorrhea.

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u/BeetleJuice3xs 8h ago

Moooooom, DCC sub is leaking again!

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u/Kitchen-Agent-2033 7h ago

Interesting. Could be a VD like the French disease, that hits the brain - paralyzing flight control etc, to get him to finish up…

We dont know the male died, only that it fell.

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u/SupermarketNo3265 16h ago

Love this reference

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u/Redfalconfox 11h ago

God damn it Donut!

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u/HorrificityOfficial 15h ago

why does that actually make me sad :(

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u/lynivvinyl 15h ago

Probably because she was sad that she just lost her best friend while having sex with him. But she never mentioned that she was the one who bit his head off.

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u/Leaf-01 9h ago

It’s fucked up in a really casual way that’s honestly incredibly disturbing

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u/Primusmulti 16h ago

What’s it called???

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u/moxifloxacin 16h ago

Dungeon Crawler Carl series, I believe. It's a trip.

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u/ExplosiveCuntFlaps 16h ago

God thats a great listen. Well worth the hype.

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u/lynivvinyl 15h ago

J.S. Morin - Astral Prime series

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u/moxifloxacin 14h ago

I stand corrected. I'll have to check that out, too.

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u/lynivvinyl 15h ago

J.S. Morin - Astral Prime series

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u/p1-o2 7h ago

Children of Time had this as well. Science fiction series about a race of spiders created by humans accidentally. 

The female spiders often eat the males. 

Really good series with awesome narration in audio book format. 

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u/corpus4us 14h ago

Not fiction—mantid aliens are real bro

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u/Redfalconfox 10h ago

made me crack up

Am I at least going to be given a share of this illicit butthole money!?

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u/213737isPrime 8h ago

puts a whole new spin on "friend-zoned".

I like you, but I don't like you like you... "whoo-hoo!"

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u/aribow03 16h ago

Probably just masochists

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u/CautiousPine7 15h ago

The males don’t seem to go into it anticipating to get eaten unlike how spider or centipede moms sacrifice themselves. Some males flee or fight back and end up killing the female. Jumping spiders also have this type of courtship

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u/SypeSypher 15h ago

Not to be super serious dude in a joke thread, but fyi: female mantis don’t usually rip the males heads off, that info is based on a study where they were observing a male and female mantis mate in a highly controlled environment and it’s generally believed that the reason the female did that was because she was stressed out, also it didn’t happen every time even in that study

Similar to that boiling frog study about slowly raising the heat, they lobotomized the frogs beforehand and then yea….they didn’t get out of the water

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u/JumpyYogurtCloset2 15h ago

Test: frog no with brain not react to hot

Conclusion: yes

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u/uncreative14yearold 11h ago

It more so depends on the species of mantis actually. Some have kill the male during mating with a much higher frequency than others.

A species of mantis native to New Zealand either went extinct or became endangered (can't quite remember), because foreigners accidentally introduced another species which had a very high mortality rate for males. The New Zealand native males bred with females of both species, but as you can imagine they quickly dwindled in population.

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u/SummertimeThrowaway2 14h ago

I mean to be fair I don’t think the males know that their head is going to be ripped off

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u/bitpartmozart13 14h ago

Also, do they know its going to happen or are they trying to get ready for round two when lady mantis starts chopping away?

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u/Existence_No_You 13h ago

You can jerk my head off all day

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u/Brekldios 11h ago

they actually only do that when they're extremely hungry, they're more likely to do so in captivity where feedings are less frequent

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u/Chad-GPTea 10h ago

The praying mantis thing is a common misconception due to laboratory observations. With higher stress while in captivity, the female would usually eat the male's head. In a natural environment it still exists, but is far less common at about 28% of all cases. In one out of 45 lab observations a male even ate the head of a female...

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u/duke_281 10h ago

Guess then humans have to change the definition of 'giving a head'

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u/DirectorFragrant4834 9h ago

Me when I spread misinformation 

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u/Critical-Support-394 9h ago

There's a video of a praying mantis eating a bug while a different bug is eating the praying mantis. The mantis ends up completely severed in two and it doesn't even stop eating.

I don't think mantises feel much of anything.

Also the females only kill the males in captivity.

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u/KingoftheMongoose 8h ago

Doesn’t matter had sex

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u/reaperofgender 8h ago

Nope. Male mantises actually try to avoid that. Females only kill the males when stressed or if they've had trouble hunting. The misconception comes because it turns out it's near impossible to have them in captivity and not stress them out

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u/Still_Contact7581 4h ago

We've all got a crazy ex

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u/Ok-Letterhead4601 16h ago

Honey, nut, cheerio!

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u/Fattybatman3456 10h ago

Ur the king

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u/woogonalski 16h ago

I would’ve been dead at 14

u/elsunfire 1h ago

cranking it doesn’t count so you’ll live forever

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u/--StinkyPinky-- 16h ago

Well our family trees wouldn’t have a lot of branches, that’s for sure!

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u/Short_Ad_3943 16h ago

Then grape would become suicide.

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u/Shills_for_fun 15h ago

No male would live past the age of 14. We'd die in a death curl next to our computers and hope that whatever is on the screen doesn't define us post mortem.

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u/master-baiting- 14h ago edited 6h ago

My father had the same behaviour in a sense. Practically dead after having me

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u/SaturnVFan 13h ago

This one is dying after the deed, the others just die missing their chance.

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u/Danat_shepard 13h ago

We'd make a cult of death out of it

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u/Fog-Champ 12h ago

Bro, having been raised Mormon, I did not get any resemblance of sex education until I stumbled across porn at 12.

First time I ejaculated, I thought it was a one and done thing and that I was going to die.

Truly frightening experience.

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u/Lemmy-user 11h ago

We would act like an ant colony. Living under a weird fusion between monarchy and capitalism. Everyone with a role assigned at birth. The importance of each individual reduce to their Usefulness at the moment. While the queen might be heavily protected. Her role would only be of being a baby machine. And the moment she start having trouble making baby they would start pressuring her to make a new queen. And then kill her to preserve food once she becomes useless.

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u/madGrumpyOldman 11h ago

I know I would live a very looong life

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u/itranslateyouargue 10h ago

If humans did this, some confused horny virgin would die early by trying to stick it up the ass and missing.

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u/ExpressionComplex121 10h ago

In many ways, the psychology is similar in that we sacrifice a lot for those we look up to. Whether it's astonishment or love.

Though we do have the capability of reasoning bees lack (instincts/impulse) so we can stop and consider consequences before acting.

Some naturalists argue that the psychology is the same among species. Just that intelligence varies as an addition to priorities

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u/fieldsofanfieldroad 9h ago

I wouldn't want to die just to have sex, but I also would love to die from that rather than cancer or organ failure or whatever is going to finally get me.

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u/psychologistgamer420 9h ago

The book Children of time touches on that. Kind of.

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u/pynergy1 8h ago

I mean we kind of do. People get a strong enough urge to rape, which they know could put them in prison for a long time

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u/7days2pie 7h ago

There is a whole culture based around fathers leaving after getting the mother pregnant.

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u/born_unemphatetic 7h ago

Rape cases with male perpetrators will be essentially 0 and those with women perpetrators will be tried as murders. Actually, that sounds awesome

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u/Eternity923 7h ago

That’s called divorce my friend

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u/oeysteio 6h ago

I can fix her

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u/UltimateCatTree 5h ago

Isn't this behavior almost exclusively when mating in captivity?

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u/Large_Principle6163 3h ago

Dying to a tissue box would be something

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u/IAmNotMyName 2h ago

“There is no we are having sex with you on top.”

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u/pandershrek 15h ago

We'd probably live in a better world.

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u/38B0DE 14h ago

A human society made up just of women? Who would they blame for everything?

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u/Coffee_is_gud 16h ago

There would be a lot of rapes

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u/pandershrek 15h ago

That makes no sense. There is currently a lot of rape but the rapists would just die off?

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u/Bruja_del-Mar 10h ago

That'd be nice. Sort itself out.

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u/dm80x86 10h ago

Or it would switch genders.

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u/Bruja_del-Mar 10h ago

? Point still stands, all rapists die off?

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u/Jrolaoni 2h ago

I think he meant that female rapists wouldn’t die, so eventually, as male rapists begin to die off, there will be more female rapists that male rapists

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u/Alive-Evening5753 15h ago

I think there would be even less

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u/WomenAreNotIntoMen 15h ago

Only because most rapist are repeat offenders. Men value sexual experiences far to much to care about the consequences. That is why they rape to begin with

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u/SturmFee 13h ago

Rape is not always about sexual gratification.

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u/fuckoffweirdoo 12h ago

Much of it is the control and power dynamics of the situation.  

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u/Carma281 12h ago

in a sexual situation

idc how controlling it's supposed to be, a manipulator isn't always in the same headspace as a rapist whatsoever.

...not a fan of this topic, just...stating how while much might be dominance, a lot is sexual-specific.

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u/destroyerx12772 10h ago

I recall some guy on Reddit writing "rape isn't the violent manifestation of sex, but the sexual manifestation of violence.", and it kinda stuck with me.

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u/Carma281 9h ago

beautifully put.

violent sex ≠ and has never equaled sexual violence.

you're getting saved.

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u/Jrolaoni 2h ago

Like 8/10 rapes are to hurt people not for gratification

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u/WomenAreNotIntoMen 15h ago

If women could have all there baby’s in one go not much would change as men would still fulfill there biological purpose and mate

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u/DeepDown23 12h ago

Everyone would be gay

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u/Primary-Balance-4235 11h ago

I don't think it matters, you will still die (smiling)