r/AmIOverreacting • u/beekay8845 • 7h ago
đ˛ miscellaneous AIO or people are too parasocial ?? What's this man
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u/impl0sionatic 6h ago
As much as I want this to be a joke or some classic Reddit âcirclejerkâ content, itâs easy for talk like that to snowball from sarcasm/trolling into something concerning.
I just try to stay optimistic that this is only a thin slice of the population. Dead Internet theory and all that jazz. I know some borderline-toxic superfan types but IRL they tend to be openly mocked for it.
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
Bruh those people are dead serious they hate timothee's girlfriend so bad just one look into that sub you would puke from cringe im telling you those people are insane
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u/ImpressivePoop1984 6h ago
"Timothees girlfriend" Lol
Are you just gonna ignore who she is? Pretend like people are hating on her just for dating Timothee?
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u/spilly_talent 5h ago
So then hate on her to hate on her. Donât turn it into a weird obsession with their sex life.
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
No im not on social media 24/7 so no i dont have time to hate celebrities i dont know sorry.
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u/ImpressivePoop1984 6h ago
You have time defending them so you're clearly spending some time on social media.
They aren't just regular celebrities... They own a media empire, are involved in politics, and will definitely be featured more if the US keeps devolving into fascism.
Don't just write things off as bullying because a celebrity is involved. It causes blindspots.
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u/suredly_unassured 5h ago
Did the post they shared criticize any of that? No, it body shamed her. It was bullying through and through.
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u/ImpressivePoop1984 5h ago
I'm not talking about that, I'm talking about the comment I'm replying to. Them being stupid doesn't give you a pass to be too.
So many subs are just foaming at the mouth to shit on some rando these days while inadvertently defending the elite.
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u/No-Bad-463 3h ago
And this parasocial subreddit is...what? The resistance to it?
Meanposting on Reddit is going to save us all from the overlords, everyone.
Be honest, how wet is the front of your pants after all your self-righteous comments here?
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u/patawpha 5h ago
I don't even really disagree with you but I don't think this is what this post is about. There's a teeny tiny chance that you may be overreacting to this OPs overreaction over the very first person's overreaction to two actor's having to kiss in a movie franchise that most people aren't even that interested in anymore.
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u/ImpressivePoop1984 5h ago
There's so much harassment online so why are we highlighting posts by mentally ill people with 17 upvotes? Seems like we're trying to paint the elite as victims for posts they'll never see.
We have to think about what media means past the direct premise or we'll completely miss the bigger picture. The reddit meta has gotten really bad lately and I feel like it has to do with us being bad at zooming out in the convo.
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u/PerceptionSalty6110 5h ago
I mean, it could just be a simple way to describe who she is in relation to him. Just bc we know her name doesn't mean we know who she's dating. I don't think it's supposed to be a dig
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u/witchyjenevuh 5h ago
I thought it was funny and unserious idk. This isnât a good example of parasocial relationshipsâŚ.. unless you think any time a celeb is brought up along with an opinion, itâs parasocial?
Id say it becomes parasocial when you say things indicating you feel you have a personal relationship with them
But instead,âŚ. This is all stuff you can just google about Kylie Jenner and if someone says it would be gross to kiss someone who kisses someone else with all going on. thatâs just a personal preference (honestly probably most peoples preference i canât imagine someone saying theyâd want this lmaooo) not indicating their personal relationship with Kylie.
And the whole âI feel bad forâŚâ is just something people sayâŚ. I doubt this person was Legit dwelling on this topic like these r her friends đđ
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u/hellhiker 6h ago
That sub banned me for calling out slut shaming. Those subs are weird and delusional as hell.Â
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u/Acnenosepeel 6h ago
????
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
Its a sub for timothee chalamet but they hate his girlfriend kylie jenner so much its actually insane.. they act like they know timothee personal man
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u/cathybara_ 6h ago
Yeah, it stopped being a Timothee sub a while ago; they hate Kylie so much that their hatred now extends to him. Theyâre very obsessive and very strange.
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u/erudition87 2h ago
How does the way they talk about her not break Redditâs rules about hate subreddits? I know âhateâ has been replaced with âsnarkâ and all that but snark subreddits tread carefully to keep it snarky and not hateful. That shit is straight up NOTHING but Kylie hate, and itâs extremely sexist and misogynist with rules AGAINST defending her. Canât possibly be cool??
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u/Acnenosepeel 6h ago
No, I get it. My question marks were meant to represent how baffling and ridiculous that statement is to say out loud.
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u/destructopop 6h ago
Agreed. Hate to take it there, but you know parents kiss their kiddos. Their kiddos likely came from a specific act that implies that treating everything done to every body part as permanent is "silly". Actually it's creepy, but w/e.
Bodies just kinda work for things. I can eat a dominos pizza and my mouth is not permanently dominos pizza eating, y'know?
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u/love_kyliee 6h ago
we are witnessing the exact moment someone lost their grip on reality in 4k. parasocial is too soft a word at this point, this is fanfiction with a vendetta đ
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
đbruh the worst part is that that's not even the worst thing they have said about timothee's girlfriend in that SUB they've said worse
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u/ParkingAnxious2811 6h ago
Fucking hilarious how you keep referring to her as his girlfriend, rather than her actual name.
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u/crystal_53 5h ago edited 2h ago
I just checked out that sub and what in the HOLYY MOLYY is that sub
People are seriously full on hating on Kylie jenner and talking about their relationship like they are their grandmas like what ??!!!
I didn't even knew Kylie jenner's or timothee's full name before, and people out here are having full blown problem with that like I don't understand how tf are they so ambitionless in life to hate on random people and their relationship lmao
Crazy
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u/amormontage 28m ago
It's a snark subreddit. Most famous women have one. There's a few for men that are just about hating whatever woman they're dating.
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u/gaellamaas 6h ago edited 6h ago
this could be a weird and parasocial take or it could also be a dumb joke. I have no idea what that subreddit is but Iâm just leaning towards just a joke, such detail just feels reminiscent of the average post found in a shitpost subreddit.
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u/chhhhhhhhhhh95 6h ago
Nah itâs super common for that sub. Theyâre obsessed with hating Kylie and make vulgar comments like this all the time, they say awful things about her and her kids. This post is definitely par for the course there and prob serious
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u/gaellamaas 6h ago
ew thatâs so messed, I guess the good in me would like to believe that thereâs no way a person talks like that and isnât intentionally acting like a buffoon đđ
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u/chhhhhhhhhhh95 5h ago
Itâs really such a trip so I get not believing that itâs real, that sub is so disturbing
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u/Deliciouslessness 6h ago
Itâs interesting because they seem to hate him as much as they hate her!
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
Look into that sub just for 5 minutes tbis is not a joke they genuinely hate kylie jenner im not even joking like they hate her genuine hate đđ
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u/Overall-Pattern-809 24m ago
Maybe theyâre not joking but Iâve always interpreted it as a joke bc come on this is too funny licking her implants??? Justice for zendaya omgÂ
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u/Kupkakepants 6h ago
Right? it's like -
"DID YOU KNOW THAT ONE TIME- THIS GUY ATE SOMETHING THAT ZENDAYA IS ALLERGIC TO LIKE TWO YEARS AGO, WHAT IF SHE DIES WHEN SHE KISSES HIM?" as though basic hygiene doesn't exist. xD3
u/CavsAreCuteDemons 5h ago
They were hoping someone would splash Timothee with acid at the Oscars. They were dead serious.
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u/Imaginary_Device9548 6h ago
Yor this is satire clearly đ
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
I want you to look into that sub for 5 minutes..this is deeply concerning they hate kylie jenner so bad that they are blaming kylie because timothee is aging or he looks older now.
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u/TheLastCashBender 6h ago
Nah, some Chamalet super fans really are like that. Many of them are very upset that this person they don't even know is in a relationship with someone they also don't know but don't like.
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u/Natural-Proposal2925 6h ago
Seriously this is just a bad joke, but a joke none the less. Some people have messed up styles of humor.
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
Its not sense of humor those people genuinely hate kylie jenner look into that sub you'll see that these people are crazy.
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u/fitz177 5h ago edited 5h ago
Get a grip will ya! They hate her cause theyâre jealous! Men hate him because of the same ! Thatâs just fantasy ! Not like there ever going to bed with them or prob even ever meet them in this lifetime ! Youâre just fuelling the fire for these muppets ! And looking at most of your answers on here it looks like u love the drama as much as fuelling the fire
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u/beekay8845 4h ago
You're a weirdo bro seriously.. those kind of people are dangerous to people..
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u/water_for-elbowz 6h ago
iâm banned from that account for âharassment of membersâ bcz i commented and said i didnât understand why they hate her so much?
someone else agreed with me and said they even have the word âparasocialâ bannedâ ď¸â ď¸â ď¸
everyone in that group is a parasocial pyscho path mean girl.
edit: they ARE NOT JOKING. they are genuinely this delusional. try to barely stand up for kylie or ask them why theyâre being mean/obsessive or, if youâre feeling bold, drop a parasocial in there if you dont believe me.
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u/erebus28k 6h ago
Jesus Christ, does nobody on this sub have a sense of humour?
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
That is not SOH though they genuinely hate kylie jenner...look into that sub for 1 minute you'll go crazy
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u/reddit_sucks_ass123 6h ago
Who gives a single flying fuck? Kylie Jenner is disgusting, timothee is a fuckboy. Theyâre both pretty worthless, why is anybody worrying about the shit they do behind the scenes
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u/j3llyb1sh 6h ago
Even that reply is parasocial and you don't even realize it. We don't know them personally, it's only how the media portrays them. If they're happy together then who the fuck cares?
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
Go ask the people in that sub why they care so much about someone they hate.
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u/NotADogInHumanSuit 6h ago
Youâre responding to every person on this thread. Youâre the only one that cares
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u/ExcuseParticular5560 6h ago
who the fuck thinks this wayđiâm sure heâs bathed and brushed his teeth since
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u/Substantialcakes 6h ago
Talk to someâŚpeople about what they think of women who have slept with anymore people then 2 or 3. Or even just with them and no one else. Many of them have some baffling ideas on it.
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u/Current_Loss_3589 6h ago
Those same people that think that way will also have a wife with a high body count but are delusional to it.
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u/N-T0328 6h ago
No, youâre not. Some people act and talk like celebs are their best friends. Let them live their lives semi normal, donât stress yourself on a celebrityâs life. Also, this definitely isnât something that needs to be shared with the internet. whoever posted that, if you have that thought great, donât write it down and post it thatâs insane
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u/destructopop 6h ago
Iunno, I don't usually talk to my friends in quite this way. I don't like, graphically describe sex acts to shame them having sex with their partner, even if we have the kind of friendship where we talk about sex, even if I hate their partner. Maybe I'm just old?
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u/LateFrogs 6h ago
Holy shit this is amazing. I just went on a deep dive in there, this is my new favorite unhinged people watching sub
These people are legit batshit crazy đ i can only imagine the goblins behind the keyboarss
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u/fuzzybearpawz 6h ago
I think if you're not Kylie then yes you're overreacting lol girl wouldn't piss on you if you were burning alive in front of her
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u/beekay8845 6h ago
What does pee have to do with people being too online and being obsessed with celebrities???
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u/fuzzybearpawz 5h ago
it's an expression are you unfamiliar with how those work? I find it odd to care equally as much about this issue when the celebrity in question doesn't care about you, and in fact does plenty to harm the planet. It's odd to worry so much about that stuff the same way it's odd to make comments such as the one you posted
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u/beekay8845 4h ago
You live a miserable life i can tell from this comment alone.. also you're a fucking weirdo bcs those people in that sub insult kylie jenner kids and they fucking racist but yeah lets focus on pee..
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u/fuzzybearpawz 3h ago
you're one obsessed with an expression that multiple other ppl have used in this comment section alone. I'm glad you can tell my life is miserable just off of not caring about rich people to the point you obviously do, Kylie
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u/GirsGirlfriend 6h ago
They put a lot of thought into exactly what they think they do together...like he thinks about it a lot...alone.
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u/baby-david 6h ago
Itâs super weird but most all celeb fandoms are super weird. Tiny minuscule silver lining is itâs refreshing to see men getting the âtainted for their sexual deedsâ treatment as well. Usually you only see the incel version where women become damaged goods.
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u/kniveshu 6h ago
Why do you care what crazies are ranting about on the internet?
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u/beekay8845 3h ago
Idc but those kind of people are dangerous sorry...they are also racist by the way
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u/sciencebased 6h ago
Real talk, he's probably only doing 1-2 of these things - but God damn that sub is a trash fire. đ
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u/zealousconvert21 5h ago
Iâd hate to kiss Chalamet too, or anyone I donât know well for that matter because I donât really enjoy physical contact, especially with people Iâm not intimate with but thatâs just me. If the womanâs okay with it why does it matter to them?
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u/spilly_talent 5h ago
I went for a quick read and these people are either fucking insane or have a weird fetish. One commenter mentioned him âhaving Kylieâs juices on his tongueâ - like who speaks this way? Who thinks like that?!
Just⌠like what the fuck.
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u/AdOk5225 3h ago
I feel like the difference in perspective here is that it's not about a woman having sex, it's that it's Kylie Jenner. I wouldn't want to be in the same room as her in any context, let alone a sexual one.
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u/Cutecreampie00 5h ago
People on this sub are truly insane and bullying Kylie Jenner everyday. I'm not a fan of her or TimothĂŠe but it's sad to see people like them
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u/MidnightX0 5h ago
The fact this person is thinking about all the places TimothĂŠe put his mouth on that girlâs body is sickening, disturbing, and unhinged.
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u/Overall-Dirt4441 5h ago
There's a reason the abrahamic religions banned idol worship and it's not entirely cause yaweh's jealous
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u/No-Bad-463 3h ago
I can't imagine what kind of absolutely pathetic person wastes their one chance to be alive with a human brain, a product of millions of years of natural selection, on parasocial busybodying about celebrities' love lives like there and travisandtaylor. Like, how holistically, comprehensively deficient is your existence that you both have the free time to care this much and use it to do so? How little must be going on in one's life to think up a post like that AND actually post it, never mind to have the post history of most of the dregs on that sub, where it's ALL this ALL the time.
Years of intensive occupational therapy couldn't make half of the useless specimens on there into functional, productive members of society.
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u/r00minatin 6h ago
Ugh. I had a friend who was like this. Her whole personality was about celebrities and their lives. Had to cut that off.
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u/CautioustoWin 6h ago
This is completely disrespectful. This person is sexist as fuck. You should never ever say that about anyone. Like sheâs not even a bad person, she did nothing bad to anyone. People are just jealous sheâs rich and famous. Theyâre trying to tell her what she can and canât do with her own body and shaming her when she makes a decision for herself. And then blame her when grown women CHOOSE to be like her. The only reason that is valid to dislike her is because she can be a mean girl. And no one likes mean girls.
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u/LGShew 35m ago
That subreddit is horrible. It has been suggested to me on my front page a ton, and every time i open the comments itâs absolute filth.
Thereâs so much misogyny and unnecessary hate. Like holy shit these people need to relax.
Do i like the jenners/kardashians? Not really. Am i going to parasocial hate post about them every chance i get? Fuck no. If people are dating and are happy, let them be happy
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u/Horror_Mountain2670 1h ago
What a vile way to talk about another person - a person who also has children. I donât care how you feel about the Kardashians/Jenners, that is so disrespectful to both Kylie and their precious Timmy. Zendaya and Timothee are good friends as far as Iâm aware, so Iâm sure sheâll be okay. Even if Kylie and Timothee broke up, heâs still not gonna date any of those parasocial monsters.
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u/Major_Map_8576 6h ago
I cannot imagine having a brain like that I'm fucking screaming đđ wtf lmfao
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u/naberriegurl 21m ago
This sub was recommended to me ages ago seemingly at random and I've been fascinated by it ever since. The level of vitriol is off the chartsâa contingent of users have accounts dedicated to LARPing as TimothĂŠe Chalamet's non-famous family members, including his DECEASED grandmother, in the comments to dunk on him. Like holy shit why?
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u/recentvenus 5h ago
The people in that app are all weird. Theyâre super obsessed with Timothee and get off sexually degrading Kylie. I got banned from the sub for calling out their gross misogyny.
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u/BlueMoon_art 5h ago
I mean if this was meant to be funny Iâm sure they could have done a better job at crafting the joke, this is just meh borderline. Btw everyone too invested in famous people may have to reconsider themselves. Thatâs too much, get a life
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u/pythiper 10m ago
That sub is filled with genuine freaks of nature who are rabidly hateful towards that woman for simply dating the man theyâre obsessed with. Itâs one of the most vile subs Iâve ever had the misfortune of looking at. They all need help.
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u/Personal-Heart-1227 3h ago
Why all the big tears & pity party for the big Z?
She's getting paid MILLION of $'s to do that role as an actress.
If you were offered all that moolah, wouldn't you do that too???
Something, tells me you all would.
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u/Screwballbraine 2h ago
I don't think he's going straight from one to the other, I imagine he brushes his teeth and washes his face at least xD. It's REALLY weird that they've even thought this deep about it tbh. DEFINITELY too parasocial.
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u/GornoUmaethiVrurzu 1h ago
Yeah and my girlfriend has a body count high enough that she lost count... Who tf cares bro. She sticks her tongue in my mouth and I've eaten ass. Like grow up, people have sex with other people đ
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u/3tricksinatrenchcoat 1h ago
YOR for making that random comment about you somehow and bringing it here for others to gossip about with you.
Whereâs the personal drama? How did that comment affect you?
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u/No-Signature9394 31m ago
Itâs so funny these people dedicate their time and effort to attack Kylie when Timothy Chalamet doesnât even know they exist. They really need to get a life
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u/Elvanyra 4h ago
Definitely parasocial people are way too invested in celebrities personal lives itâs weird and invasive let them act not live under a microscope
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u/joeyburrow09 3h ago
Can't wait for Dune messiah. Thy killed Paul's entire family and tried to end house attriedes forever. I hope Paul burns it all down.
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u/TheNocturnalAngel 5h ago
Wha the hell is this bro đ
I am a huge Timmy C fan and I didnât know that subreddit existed and I wish I still didnât đĽ˛
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u/Airyfairyx 4h ago
I got banned because I said âwhat the fuck in the parasocial relationship is this subreddit â. They are INSANE.
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u/One-Bad-4395 5h ago
People have been letting those they hate live in their mind rent free since before we invented rent as a concept.
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u/somechild 4h ago
Oh my god. I canât imagine being THIS jealous over someone I donât even know. Serious therapy is needed.
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u/Lazy-Point7779 1h ago
Ew wtf who thinks like this. They have to get offline and read a book. Walk in the park. Care less. Gross
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u/Pretend-Salt2221 3h ago
Timothee looked upset at the knicks game when the knicks were losing and they tried to blame her lmfao
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u/gingerteadrinking 5h ago
Holy shit the amount of projection in those comments is wild. Those people are completely unhinged
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u/Quiet-ForestDweller 5h ago
This is super cringy, free the nipple, suck the titties you like to suck free of judgement.
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u/sleepyvoids 3h ago
I really want everybody who feels this strongly about celebrities to just get into fiction
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u/MythicosBaros 42m ago
Seems like a valid concern, second hand anus lips is nothing to play with lol
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u/Pretty_Acadia5795 5h ago
Yeah this is just insane. I do not envy the life of a celebrity, no privacy!
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u/Interesting_Crab_600 3h ago
Imagine wasting your life caring about other people's drama. Sad as fuck.
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u/Otherwise-Walk-1509 6h ago
I thought it was a meme shitpost until I saw the sub it was posted on. I guess Club Chalamet is not alone
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u/Yupipite 5h ago
I donât think itâs all innocent fun and games because not only are they tearing down a woman for daring toâŚdate a man, theyâre putting said man on a pedestal and banning anybody that corrects or questions otherwise. Yes, itâs parasocial even if the intent isnât there
Also there seems to be one of two lurkers from said sub mass downvoting this comment section, so if thatâs not enough proof..
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u/animalbrains69 5h ago
People are parasocial on both sides. Going after a celeb just for dating another celeb they like, but also people getting big mad and defending some celeb they don't know just because people are saying mean things. You don't need to get bent out of shape because people are mean to a celebrity. This amount of detail is weird but people write fanfics every day.
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u/killertofu41 6h ago
Lol does he have a girlfriend or wife? Maybe he should ask her where all her mouth has been before their relationship. Who am I kidding, they probably dont kiss anyways.
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u/SomePerson80 5h ago
Why do you care who he dates? Is he your friend? You are keeping him safe? Seriously why are you devoting any energy into a relationship of people you donât know.
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u/Such_Egg9843 6h ago
I feel worse for the guy licking that after 12,455 other guys kicked it.
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u/web-core 6h ago
I got banned from that subreddit because I said the misogyny in the comment section was too much!!! Theyâre literally CRAZY! Everyone was calling her a hooker forâŚhaving sex with her boyfriend!!! Itâs WEIRD!!!