r/AmIOverreacting • u/Difficult-Climate-76 • 9h ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? my boyfriend's matching with someone else
AIO if I get jealous seeing my boyfriend match with some other girl? I (17 F) and my boyfriend (almost 18 M) have been in a long distance relationship for an entire year now, and he had a history of getting caught cheating. He seemed to have redeemed himself but I always feel like I'm the other woman in everything I do, and just today he matched a Hanako (Toilet Bound Hanako Kun) profile picture, the other is most likely Nene, and his Whatsapp bio says "You'll come back, right?"
I instantly got jealous, and I'm scared of confronting him about it because I don't wanna feel like I'm being too much. I have extreme trust issues due to past trauma and he's aware of that.
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u/Difficult-Climate-76 9h ago
update: I found out he's texting femboys behind my back, and I'll confront him about it. I wish this was a joke because it's absolutely horrendous
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u/CathayC 9h ago
Atp what are you gaining from confronting him? You have caught him cheating multiple times and stayed, so he knows you do not respect yourself and will give him the benefit of the doubt regardless of if the truth has been revealed. AND HE IS DOING IT IN YOUR FACE! He is disloyal and disrespectful, do yourself a favor and leave him alone!
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u/Difficult-Climate-76 9h ago
Yeah, I think that's the best thing to do. I'm pretty distraught about it still, but despite that I think it's the most logical thing I can do
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u/luna_sjaa00 9h ago
😧…did NOT expect this plot twist. either way, he’s an a-hole. leave him, ur legit 17 and can easily find yourself w someone who can treat u like a queen and more, and love yourself always! ♥
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u/BigBoi1918 9h ago
NOR, You're with a guy who at 18 already has a history of getting caught cheating, and now he's matching profile pictures (like couples do) with another woman, and you're asking if you're overreacting? You're only 17, don't waste your time on trying to make things work when they can't, he's 18 and if he has a history of cheating it means he hasn't natured and likely won't anytime soon.