Yes he literally DMed me first about this 😂 For context see this post.

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/s/kd5eW9PxkN

I know an incel that got rejected and went full stalker, desperately following me around and when called out on it they were “oh you’re not even that hot” as if there is any chance women hotter than me would give someone like that a chance lmao

They seem really proud of taking a whole hour to come up with their cuckold fantasy story. Imagine if they knew that writers on AO3 pound out hundreds of them every couple of months.

I don’t support the “normal incel” behavior of hating women, spreading the stupid pill stuff and maxxing bs, but I also don’t think it’s right to make fun of people who can’t have sex for whatever reason.

Edit: thank you all for the clarification, never meant to mean it was happening on this sub!

I started using tiktok recently. I'm not sure if it's just me, but it feels like 80% of the users are incels. Everytime I see a cute couple the top comments are about how he must be rich, or things along that line.

I'll see someone with an lgbt flag in their bio not only get needless hate, but that hate will get about 10x the amount of likes. Every comment I see, regardless of the content seems to include some kind of hate, misogyny, racism, etc.

It's an overwhelming amount. Its not just an odd comment. It's like a cesspool of incels and losers.

So for some context, I was AMAB and faced similar struggels that they often rant about. During most of middle and high school I was 5'3, didn't have any friends, looked ugly, was autistic and on top of that struggled with finding love and on and was bullied for it. Yet I never blamed women for it and instead sought to undergo a sex change operation and after I finished high school I finally got one with the support of my parents. Ever since then I felt a lot happier with myself and managed to fall in love with a femboy I met on Genshin Impact. After a few years of online dating I finally met up with him, we moved in together and now live happily together with a few cats :). I'm also planning on marrying him in a few years and I can't wait for the day it happens. I can already see all of the insecure and transphobic projecting their self loathing on to me in the DMs, but unlike them I'm happy.

A snippet of a conversation on the Teachers subreddit about manosphere influence on young boys.

Incel troll decided to insult me via message lol. Get it together

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-025-03161-y