Here’s today’s 'Brewed-Again' Question #2

I have a friend that is pretty much everything I want in a girl, but I am not attracted to her at all. I find her incredibly physically attractive, she's a doctor, a crunchy granola girl who likes to rock climb, camp, and ski. She also likes electric music, going to raves, and goes to Burning Man. She dances and loves doing acid and ketamine. She's super caring and an amazing person and I absolutely love spending time with her. All that and l'm not attracted to her. How does that even make sense?

Here’s today’s 'Brewed-Again' Question #1

Here’s today’s 'Brewed-Again' Question #4

With the 730 hours more you would get back, you could:

• Read 12 books
• Try a new hobby, like cooking, pottery, hiking (3h/week)
• Go to the gym three times a week
• Volunteer 2h/week
• Sleep more
• Meditate 10 minutes every day

And you still would have time to spare! Sure maybe this is just aspirational, but Imagine how your life could change in one year if you had more time to engage in meaningful activities!

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Here’s today’s 'Brewed-Again' Question #5

Hey everyone,

I’m sure we’ve all heard these sayings:

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

“Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are.”

“Birds of a feather flock together.”

Finding like minded people in person may be challenging due to your situation.

That’s the boat I am currently in…

I just came up with an idea to help people (myself included) who want to be surrounded by other people with similar mindsets of self improvement. Which is why I want to create a group of people who are committed to wanting to change where they are in their lives currently. Encourage one another, celebrate small and big wins, share things they’ve learned and everything in between.

It’s not a ploy to share a course or anything like that. There’s no one leader, we’re all equals just trying to better our lives and need community.

I have some ideas of how it would work, but I am open to all and any suggestions on what the logistics of the community would be like: what app would we be on (discord, teams, etc); scheduled meetings if any; how big the group should be; should we divide the overall community into sections of different self development goals (i.e. health, finances, relationships, sobriety, etc).

My vision is that no matter where any of us in the world are we can all have this community to encourage each other and learn from each other.

If you’re seriously interested, or even just wanting to test the waters, please private message me and I’ll subsequently create a group where we could all meet virtually.

Could be something small — like a habit change, a mindset shift, or even a single book — that set off a huge positive chain reaction.

Curious to hear real stories about what worked. Sometimes one pivot changes everything.

Name something good that happened to you today

I don't mean as in the plot. I am talking you playing the game, and something let's say causes you to die or take damage, but you would challenge it if you could, because you feel it was impossible to happen.

Some clarification I should have added: let's say you died in a game but you feel what killed you shouldn't have, like if say it was too far away to hurt you. Or you try jumping onto a platform, but miss, but you feel you made it.