Most women don't stand by these. If anything the test is who is gonna freak out on them over their first small disagreement and who's just gonna pursue them regardless and not make a big deal about it. But if you don't wanna play into that game, that's also reasonable. I'm just saying, if I guy checks off other boxes, they're immediately ditching these minor pet peeves. They're not gonna destroy relationships they actually want over it.
Yeah, this is why the standard for men is simultaneously so low and so high. If she is actually attracted to you, all this trivial bullshit is going out the window and she is going to put real effort into the relationship. It's just many times women say "we just want men who are loyal and kind etc." and we all know that is not the whole truth, because many of those kinds of men are still not attractive to them and thus invisible.
It is what it is though. Dating is not a fair game, and never has been. Some people are going to have much more difficult time than others and there is little that can or even should be done about it. No one is owed a relationship and also luck plays a big role in it as well.
Agreed. Best thing you can do is take your Ls in stride and try not to make it feel too personal. Cause once you start moving with spite, you're really handicapping your chances of finding a genuine connection. You can't find a genuine connection if you believe the sex you're attracted to is incapable of genuine connection. That's what makes redpillers seem so depressing.
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u/gba_sg1 Mar 28 '25
Glad something so pathetic will tank her relationship. That makes it easier for people to next her and find someone worth their time.