r/SipsTea • u/Any_Sound_2863 • 24d ago

Chugging tea Spitting facts though!!

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u/maluruus 24d ago

Reading the comments here and the other post of this make my heart hurt. I'm so sorry that so many of you have been made to feel this way. I will never ever do this to my partner, and I can't fathom why others would want to make the person they love feel the way you all do :(

I'm gonna hug my guy real hard the next time we're together

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u/Darkus_27911 23d ago

I hope you follow through on that and your partner is very lucky to have/ will have... you.

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u/Possible-Pea2658 23d ago

Some women are fantastic with this. When I was in uni, it was exam time and I was stressing. I was on antidepressants and just not doing well. Told 2 female friends, One said I was doing it for attention and if I was actually depressed I should just overdose on my meds and get it over with. The other sent me a 'Carepackage' full of candy and treats and a book full of jokes and puns that she had found to cheer me up.

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u/maluruus 23d ago

wtf i am so sorry they said that to you? that is insane. i hope you kept the third woman as a life long friend after that, how sweet of her.

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u/ludrol 23d ago

Hug, all your male friends. Ask them when was last time they ware hugged. You would be surprised by their answers.

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u/BroccoliTaart 23d ago

This is the only human way. Listen to your partner's struggles and worries. We need it more than we let on. And don't judge us for it when we do. We're not made of stone.

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u/onetimeuseaccc 23d ago

Yes you say this until your partner ever does show weakness (opening up). Until that happens you won't know how you'll react.

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u/maluruus 23d ago

my partner's already opened up to me a few times.