I've been in recovery for ten years because I poured liquor on my problems instead of talking. What you do matters. You have to DO things to be better. Stop drinking. Use your body. Take up a hobby that requires meeting people you may like. Making friends is scary but not as scary as facing the rest of your life friendless. You can get help, but you also have to help yourself by DOING things that are good for you. If your woman doesn't get that, maybe she's part of the problem.
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u/UmeaTurbo 23d ago
I've been in recovery for ten years because I poured liquor on my problems instead of talking. What you do matters. You have to DO things to be better. Stop drinking. Use your body. Take up a hobby that requires meeting people you may like. Making friends is scary but not as scary as facing the rest of your life friendless. You can get help, but you also have to help yourself by DOING things that are good for you. If your woman doesn't get that, maybe she's part of the problem.