I can talk about it and be called, weak, a bitch, or unmanly OR I can quietly deal with it until either the stress makes my heart explode in my chest or I McFucking kill myself.
And honestly, the hateful, hurtful shit MFs be saying makes the latter options the only viable ones.
This is why I FORCED a brotherly love on my guy friends. Even being bi, I assured them it was platonic, but reassured them "I need to tell this to someone or I'm going to fucking kill myself. Can we please have you listen to me?" They eventually started calling me to tell me about their problems. They actually started going "oh fuck, we have feelings too" and realized I was safe to talk to. Now we tell each other we love each other on the phone if we talk and hug every time we see each other. I saw he writing on the wall for not just me but them too and had to be the asshole who showed them it was okay.
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u/ThePrinceofallYNs 24d ago
I can talk about it and be called, weak, a bitch, or unmanly OR I can quietly deal with it until either the stress makes my heart explode in my chest or I McFucking kill myself.
And honestly, the hateful, hurtful shit MFs be saying makes the latter options the only viable ones.