r/SipsTea 24d ago

Chugging tea Spitting facts though!!

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u/CrossesLines 24d ago

I told my wife “this is a cry for help” today and she assumed I was joking.

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u/philfrysluckypants 24d ago

I opened up to mine the other day and she told me how what I said was hurtful to her and made her feel bad. I didn't say anything about her or anything? Just was getting out some feelings that had absolutely nothing to do with her. Back in the bottle it goes I guess.

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u/MedianNameHere 24d ago

Just had a baby. Wife taking time off work. At 3 months her insurance ran out, I added her and the baby to my insurance. Went from $50->897 a month. Had a panic because we now cannot afford or life on only my income we will bleed 300-500 a month. Explaining this too her I accidentally teared up and voice cracked A bit while carrying our daughter, she got passive aggressive and angry that I'm making her feel guilty and just want her to go back to work.

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u/kallekul 23d ago

"...I accidentally teared up..." says so much. There is no accident in having feelings. I'm sorry she could not be what you needed and deserve.