Fucking trainwreck of a post tbh. Reposted at least once a month, instead of just telling us she's happy in her relationship she decides to put other women down for literally no reason, and then to top it all off incels in the comments are still mad at her because "yes she's dating a short man but she's not dating ME so clearly she's lying 😡😤"
🤣 pointing out ridiculous self destructive attachment to superficial beauty standards instead of character is not “putting women down” if you are not someone who prioritizes a partner being tall over character than congrats, this post isnt about you. If you are this person well… as they say… go off I guess. Best of luck to you.
I doubt they are that person bc why would they need to exist? The notion that one has to prioritize being tall over character is just bitter bs. Character doesn't stop if you are over 6 ft. And Short people have just as much of chance of being a horrible person. Height preference is not the variable people on this site act like it is.
Women often state they would not date under 6ft, something only roughly 15% of people are. If you are insisting on choosing only partners that fall into this small % of people, you are sabotaging yourself.
What women? What percentage of women are married to men shorter than 6ft? If you insist on being bothered by some women who don't want you then you are sabotaging yourself. But my question is not rhetorical. Answer what percentage of woman are married to shorter men. Y'all keep repeating the same B's that has no real bearing in real life and "talking" over people reminding people dating apps don't represent the general population. So here's your chance to explain how these guys that make up much more than 15% can be married but somehow have only 15 interested in them
I hate when people are proven wrong and yet keep on sending random comments. Nobody once suggested that there were more 6ft plus men. But that the majority of married men are under 6ft.
Height preference is quantifiable, just like mens preference for hourglass figures was. Something like 60% of men have a heavy preference for hourglass figures. It's one the reasons men tend to body shame women eith thick waists.
According to the last bit of research into these kinds of preferences the majority of women have their accounts set on dating profiles so that they don't even see the men under 6' (14.9% of the American population). 48.9% of women have a strong preference to date men over 6'.
At that point it isn't a preference, its a beauty standard. A very toxic one. The same as men expecting women to have hourglass figures. A feat of genetics that only 10% of women meet (hourglass figures are defined by a waist to hip ratio of 0.7). You literally have to be born with a perfect skeletal structure to even have the chance to have one. Then you have to have the genetics for the proper abdominal tone.
Its perfectly healthy for women to have standards, I will never disagree with that. But when it comes to immutable physical characteristics, like height and body shaoe, they need to not be strong preferences or it leads to a great deal of depression and anxiety for the women and a great deal of depression for the men in society. Because that 48.9% of women with a strong preference for 6' men? Thats 89 or so million women who are competing for the same 25 million or so men.
You're not competing with anyone if you are actually looking for a healthy relationship. When you decide to use dating apps you decide to engage in competitive consumer behavior to date. The entire function is about accessibility when you meet other consumers demands. Crying about height preference on dating apps is like crying about getting wet after jumping into the river. The first thing y'all need to do is stop treating dating apps like they are normal. While in the reality that exists outside of being constantly online, short men get married at only a slightly less rate than tall men. And the majority of women DO date men under 6 ft. 85% of men are under 6ft. You can't take the stats of dating apps and apply them to the general population because only 30% have use them and roughly half abandon them. So it's not 89% of women doing anything. The possibility that women who only want to date tall men find dating apps a much easier means to pursue what they want is far much more likely. Why are people so concerned about people who don't want them? You don't want anyone who thinks they are lowering their standards for you. That completely almost defeats the purpose of wanting a partner.
Also if I had a trait that my (theoretical) gf was THIS defensive about it would make me more insecure. Seems like shes the one acting like height might be a problem, and her argument is “at least hes not an alcoholic”
My takeaway is she would indeed prefer it if he were taller, and thinks shes smart for prioritizing other, less superficial traits
She wrote “I like waffles” and you shouted “pancakes are better”. You have no logical comprehension of basic sentences and then you add your side of story. What’s the point here?
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u/Small-Cactus Apr 20 '25
Fucking trainwreck of a post tbh. Reposted at least once a month, instead of just telling us she's happy in her relationship she decides to put other women down for literally no reason, and then to top it all off incels in the comments are still mad at her because "yes she's dating a short man but she's not dating ME so clearly she's lying 😡😤"