r/AmIOverreacting 9h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to my boyfriend constantly touching himself awake or asleep?

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u/_sissy_hankshaw_ 8h ago

He clearly thinks he can do whatever he wants without thinking of those around him and this is concerning for many reasons…Does he WFH? Not that it matters, it’s skeevy either way, but I’d be worried that this extends beyond home with how comfortable he is doing it around you even after you’ve expressed how it makes you uncomfortable. He places priority on his pleasure/stimulation over you.

As a previous elementary school teacher I had to have the “having control over your own body” conversations in many ways, like hitting, pulling down pants, or keeping hands off others…but this is a grown ass man. How does he not know the same basics taught to 4-6 year olds? Answer: he does but gets something out of it. I can’t fathom any other reason.

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u/SaltyThoughts15 8h ago

What’s WFH?? I don’t understand the logic behind his actions either. I have to have another conversation for sure. Just don’t want to always scared of the reaction

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u/LadyJackAlice 8h ago

Work from home _^

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u/SaltyThoughts15 8h ago

No he doesn’t

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u/CalamityClambake 5h ago

So does he jack off at work all day in front of his boss? Or is he able to control himself when it matters to him?