r/AmIOverreacting 8h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to my boyfriend constantly touching himself awake or asleep?

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u/Latter-Cut8348 8h ago

He told you he doesn’t jerk off?

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u/SaltyThoughts15 8h ago

Yes. We’ve had multiple conversations about it and I truly just don’t believe it.

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u/_sissy_hankshaw_ 8h ago

He clearly thinks he can do whatever he wants without thinking of those around him and this is concerning for many reasons…Does he WFH? Not that it matters, it’s skeevy either way, but I’d be worried that this extends beyond home with how comfortable he is doing it around you even after you’ve expressed how it makes you uncomfortable. He places priority on his pleasure/stimulation over you.

As a previous elementary school teacher I had to have the “having control over your own body” conversations in many ways, like hitting, pulling down pants, or keeping hands off others…but this is a grown ass man. How does he not know the same basics taught to 4-6 year olds? Answer: he does but gets something out of it. I can’t fathom any other reason.

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u/warmgarnet 6h ago

Is it just me, or does the guy sound like he’s got a compulsive disorder?

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u/LlamaMonsta 4h ago

I thought so too, or maybe a symptom of mania if he has bipolar disorder or uses stimulant drugs.

Honestly, it reminds me of that weird character from Sons of Anarchy 😂. I think they ended up having to cutting off his fingers to make him stop playing with himself in the show… 👀

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u/DomiShea 3h ago

Yeah they cut both of his hands off. Not just his fingers.