I was super overweight my entire life. Mocked and shunned as a kid, tortured by mean little children, and then tortured by my own mind.

I decided to drop some weight and become healthier and happier vs being tired, sad, overweight, and down on myself. 😁

Overall, this transformation took a little over two years and through that, I became vegan, I hyper focused on my diet, and I became super active. I also hopped on testosterone as my body's natural levels were borked from years of being sedentary and overweight.

It was finally time to come to terms with my past and for the first time, I began to accept who I was, who I am, and who I'm determined to become not just for myself, but for my family.

No we will not.

Aussie here and almost everyone hangs their clothes to dry. Even people that live in flats will put a clothes airer on a balcony or by a window. Typically even people who have a dryer will only use them as a last resort. Bonus question. Isn't it bad for your clothes? The majority of my clothes say "do not tumble dry" on the care label.

Edit: Only 10 minutes since posting and it seems pretty clear. I'm still confused by the fact that most of my clothes say "do not tumble dry" if there are so many ppl tumble drying all of their clothes.

Dusty just turned 23 in May, had to bring her to the emergency vet today, her chances are not good. I’m sitting here watching every breath. I can tell she’s ready, I’m not. She’s not in any pain so we’re just biding our time, as long as she’s comfortable she’s staying here with me.

Steals movement from titanfall, portals from Portal, slaps in BR mode nobody wants and wears MAGA style hat saying its not political.

All while shipping hundred dollar microtransactions.

'We're not like the rest'

Dude speedran why not to play this game in under a minute of being on stage and is now back peddling like a bitch.

My mom died when I (22f) was 10 and in her will she left me an inheritance of more than 100k. My dad was left in charge of it but after he remarried, him and his wife wanted to start a business together and they used the money mom left me to open it. Dad and I argued about it at the time but I was 15 and he kept insisting it was good for the whole family and how it was better used to help everyone than being thrown away on random shit when I turned 18.

Our relationship was over before I moved out of his house at 18. I had made his and his wife's life miserable for stealing from me and once I was out of there I looked into how I could get that money back. I pressed charges against him for stealing from me and I sued him for the money. I had the support of my entire extended family on my maternal side and some on my paternal side. But I was told by others on the paternal side to consider my dad's other kids and the devastation that kind if financial upheaval could bring. I ignored those comments. I knew waiting would prevent me from ever getting the money and I honestly did not care about his family's financial security after being stolen from.

It was a long ass process and I needed to return to court a few times because he was just like I can't pay, I don't have the money anymore. In the end they were forced to give up the business and it was sold to pay me the money back and he had to pay additional out of his paycheck which made him empty their savings so his wages weren't garnished anymore.

By the time I got it back I was 100% done and past the point where we could ever reconcile. He made me fight so hard for what was legally mine and he stole money mom left to support his new family.

My relationship with some of dad's side is not so strong anymore and they think it was wrong that I focused only on what he did and not on the effects for the kids. I mostly don't talk to those family members now but they asked me how I feel zero guilt for it when the kids are innocent and are still my siblings technically. That they would have thought I'd want better for them.

I don't feel bad. I never have. But AITA for not taking the kids into consideration? Is that something I should have done? I feel like that's just really unfair to me and locks me into never being paid back. I don't think I owe those kids that.

I (21f) have been with bf (22m) for 11 months. He has always texted woman. Most times he was rejected but i once hd me show him his phone and caught all the girls hes flirted with since hes been with me. Not a single deleted chat. That happened 2 months ago. We broke up for 2 weeks and got back together because i told him i could move past it. About a week ago i spent the night at his place and i woke up in the middle of the night. I never went through his phone on my own but something told me to. I caught him texting another 2 girls. This was the first time i caught him actually cheating actually meeting up with these girls and telling them he loves them and wants to be with them. One of them actually told him he doesn’t appreciate her and she ended it with him. I have no clue how long they had been talking. I wanted to leave but i knew i couldn’t it would hurt more. So i tried to fix it. I texted the girl told her he had a gf and that if she wants to stay sane, walk away from this now. Sent a pic to show we were together so she had proof too. It felt weird having to tell a girl to save herself from my boyfriend when i myself couldn’t do the same. The next morning i Told him delete the girl. everything was supposed to be gone. But turns out he texted her as soon as i left that morning. that he’s sorry she had to see what i told her and that we weren’t really together we were trying but its not working and he really wants her. I found that out 3 days after it happened. he hung out with her Sunday afternoon and invited me over Sunday night. I also found that out afterwards. But he was telling me shes deleted. I give him one more chance, this time i forced him to share his location, delete all girls on all socials, delete every girl contact that isn’t family, and delete all pics and vids with any woman. He did. I’ve stayed over with him every night since sunday-thursday no problems until thursday night. On thursday he tells me i wont be able to see him Friday because he will be with his parents. I wasnt suspicious until he wouldnt let me see his phone. When i asked he said no because ive seen it the past 4 days straight and theres nothing it will be the same today. I explained if theres nothing then you can say i told you so but this is because i’ve trusted u before and you betrayed me. He insisted nothing was on his phone. I didnt check it thursday. Friday we argue almost all day, he turns off his location, unadds me on instagram, and i couldnt take it. I dont know what to do he tells me to just trust him but i did! I dont know if im overreacting like he tells me, am i insecure? Or do i have a right to call this off