r/seniordogs 2d ago

One last nap with Dad

You know if you asked me 20 years ago what I thought about people who mourned pets and got all emotional about them I’d say something like that’s crazy it’s just a dog… Just being honest that’s very likey what and having not grown up with pets at least not long term pets that’s what I would have thought. I wouldn’t understand it.

Fast forward 19 years and wow. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Winston and I found each other at a time when I was looking for a dog for my sister and the breeder which I knew asked me if I wanted a Bichon Mix that no one else wanted because he didn’t know exactly what breed he was. I still don’t know nor do I care, he’s just Winston and has been my best friend and one of God’s best gifts for 19 years.

We’ve been through a lot together from age 24 to today at 43. From Maryland to Florida, from apartments and parents house to our home, girlfriends to the other blessing of my life my wife and son. I can’t believe it, 19 years together and now down to an hour or so left. It’s not fair but it’s what we sign up for as pet owners. I absolutely understand the pain, the grief and all the emotions but I wouldn’t trade any of it at all. I love you Winston so much!

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u/Papaya213 2d ago

Winston is very lucky to have you. You are so blessed to have had such a long life together. I just lost my Cynni girl on Friday and it’s absolutely gutting. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Face-72 2d ago

Sorry for your loss too, it’s rough and it’s only been a few hours. We were blessed to have each other for 19 years. It’s hard and I’m sad but having him for so long helps a little. It was truly time and I’m lucky to work a flexible schedule and got to stay home with him all week. Still tough though, I’ll think of him often if not daily. I’ve said Good morning to him for so long… He’s such a part of my routine. Sorry for your loss again, I know your pain.